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a type of porn that is underrated and would prevent the above problems is the user-submitted sections of some sites like xtube. Personally I prefer pictures of ordinary people to a guy with a 20 inch penis quadruple penetrating someone at high speeds. At least for me, the more realistic, the better.

Quote from Iaretehfush: “ Normal people will probably just walk up to someone and ask if they're gay.” forgive me if that was a sarcastic statement, but its definitely not true. Most straight people will just assume, and most gay people will try to figure out secretly. "normal" people don't just ask people.

adverb, really? the best advice i can give is to provide porn. it cant guarantee anything mutual though. maybe wait til he's fairly horny, then suggest something. even with straight guys, another guy doing it for you will feel better.

when im not looking at porn, it's 98% my friends. the more realistic the better, and while my friends may be straight, at least they are real to me and know me, so the fantasies are better. oh and im in the locker room every day, so i guess it's not all fantasy

Quote from Lachlan: “There is one where two guys sit on a couch, jerk each other off, and the first one to cum has to give the other a blowjob or something” lol that's a game? sounds like just being gay to me.

if you decide to talk to him about it, i recommend instant messaging, even email. whether he's in the closet or straight, a face to face conversation could be awkward, and he would be more likely to lie. over the internet, he would have time to process what you're saying and decide how to respond. also he wouldnt be afraid of other people overhearing. good luck whatever you decide.

hmm i dont think sex is the best way to find out, since that is physical stimulation that could still feel good without attraction to the other person. it would give any definite answers. however, whether you could be in a relationship with a guy isn't really a good indicator either. since you are just questioning right now, you're romantic thoughts are still affected by environmental conditioning. so instead of thinking "can I imagine myself in a relationship with a guy?", think "am I attracted…

Quote from idk2008: “There are a lot of posts on this forum that deal with the way that 'others' perceive gay people. Maybe this thread could ease some minds. Here are some facts that I know to be true: - Gay guys don't 'hit' on straight guys. (unless they are weird) - Gay guys are as 'manly' as any other guys, unless they are fem - Gay guys won't attempt to molest you if you have a sleep over - Most gay guys 'look' just like mainstream straight guys. You will never know who is truly 'gay' or 's…

Quote from burnakow: “I think it is because gays & lesbians are not as big in number as the media makes it out to be. I know you see someone who is gay/les in every TV show or movie like it is normal but in reality there are not that many. If there were as many as the gay/les as their organizations say then why are they in only small areas of people of large populations. Heck they couldn't even win a vote for gay marriage anywhere in the US even Calihornia. Only courts have allowed it, not the p…

this happens to me constantly and is basically my "love life". as I started realizing i was gay, it happened with more and more people. it's really tough to say how to handle each situation. since i'm not very lucky or charming enough to attract closet gays, i am still single, even after I have been out of the closet for a year. so i dont exactly know what works. good luck and remember that there's someone out there.

i dont know what the original question was (why's it gone?) but also keep in mind that the "who you want to be with for the rest of your life" thing is emotional, not logical. In other words, those confused about their sexuality may still be uncomfortable with the concept of a gay lifestyle, but that could just be social conditioning. the indication of being gay would be whether you feel like being with the same sex.

yes, the wording of dazza's first comment (weird) was confusing, and he/she later explained what he/she meant, and as a gay guy, I don't think it's such a unique position, but he/she obviously likes starting (and continuing) arguments by saying it in an offensive way. And the dog analogy helped none and just offended more people. But for god's sake, why does everyone want dazza to leave? the whole point of the thread is asking why highschoolers are homophobic, why would you not welcome people wh…

If you do decide to just ask him hypothetically, I highly recommend not saying that you like him or even asking what if you liked him. Just say you're gay and leave him out of it. I've seen things go badly because someone told a straight guy that he liked him. It freaks them out. If he finds out you're gay and he does like you, then he'll let you know. By saying that you like him before you know his sexuality, it's an unnecessary risk.

i used to not want to use urinals, like in elementary school. and then i thought, why not? and so now i use them. it's actually very logical to do so.

i cant help with the relationship since i dont know anything about them, along with everyone who has posted so far apparently. you seem a little bi, but straight enough that it doesnt have to affect anything. You're probably about as straight as most straight people are whether they admit it or not. Of course this is just from your description, which seems accurate considering how open you are toward your sexuality.

pay attention to actual feelings you have toward people rather than what you're comfortable with, since comfort is just what you're used to. Those feelings are the best indicator. From the info you gave you're probably bi or gay but you can't be sure without a lot of experience.

I am still on friendly terms with everone who has found out about me, including the very homophobic. they just kinda change their minds when they find out that gays can be their friends too. There are very few people at my school that have come out, so i don't think there's much gay bashing here.

I disagree, I think love in the romantic sense is general love plus sexual attraction. In other words, if someone loves being around someone of the same sex, that is friendship, and if they are also attracted to them, then it is homosexual love. I think this attraction is the only difference between friendship and love.

Quote from Cirrax Lankart: “there is a problem with your statement, the way some gays act may not be their fault. as children, gays which turn steriotyipical, start at a very very very young agwe, far too young for any sexual orientation to be validated. it can be anything from liking the colour pink, to want a barbie, to be more shy around boys than girls to even the lisp. I, at the age of 15, found myself to shake my ass when I walked, was starting to speak with a slight lisp and was saying so…

in terms of homosexuality being natural, it is, and that's a fact. Many if not all animals can be and have been found to be gay, there is no real argument against that. But lots of mutations and disorders are natural, even though they don't work and are unfavorable. in terms of being disgusting, that's a perception that a lot of people have. Hopefully those people can find it disgusting but still accept it, provided they don't have to see it.