Well talking about it is the first step. If you don't say anything, how are we supposed to know what you're talking about? Try telling us what's on your mind. If you don't feel comfortable putting it here for everyone to see, you can post it here: teenhut.net/private-teen-support-system/ and only those who have proven themselves to be trustworthy and supportive of issues like this will be able to read and respond to you.

As Fox has so put it, we SLs are here to help with anything personal and private and can give extended help if you need it. Generally speaking it may take time since there are only a few SLs as opposed to the vast majority of the community but our advice is on a better par; at the same time some of us are open to discussing outside of a forum context to help you move out of your current problem situations and resolve into a much happier and healthier life.