Recently my girlfriend has said that she no longer feels amazing when i finger her.
we are both 16 and have been going out for 6 months. the first time i fingered her was about three months into our relationship and i have probably done it about 20-30 times since then.
the problem
This has been happening for about a month. she said that sometimes she can feel nothing and sometimes it can even hurt. i really want to be able to share sexual experiences with her but i cannot and it is really getting me down. i love her. i want to satisfy her. she has been using a cup for her period for the last two cycles and her vagina has felt quite a bit larger than it did originally. i have looked for side effects of cups on the internet and i have found nothing about it stretching the vagina.
we have been experimenting recently to see i f we can find any technique that works and the most effective method was that she moved her pelvis around while i fingered her but still that only made it feel "better than usual but not nearly as good as it was" (this was also close to the start of her next period, 1-3 days.)
i have asked her to try using pads and tampons for her period this month to see if it makes any difference. she has agreed to do so.
anyone. if you can offer help and support please do. this whole thing kinda gets me down.:cries:
we are both 16 and have been going out for 6 months. the first time i fingered her was about three months into our relationship and i have probably done it about 20-30 times since then.
the problem
This has been happening for about a month. she said that sometimes she can feel nothing and sometimes it can even hurt. i really want to be able to share sexual experiences with her but i cannot and it is really getting me down. i love her. i want to satisfy her. she has been using a cup for her period for the last two cycles and her vagina has felt quite a bit larger than it did originally. i have looked for side effects of cups on the internet and i have found nothing about it stretching the vagina.
we have been experimenting recently to see i f we can find any technique that works and the most effective method was that she moved her pelvis around while i fingered her but still that only made it feel "better than usual but not nearly as good as it was" (this was also close to the start of her next period, 1-3 days.)
i have asked her to try using pads and tampons for her period this month to see if it makes any difference. she has agreed to do so.
anyone. if you can offer help and support please do. this whole thing kinda gets me down.:cries:
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