i suppose its a good idea but if you find a non-virgin that you love would it matter you will still really like them and would you give them up for a virgin that may take a long time to find. and your first time should be special anyway no matter who you do it with or their experience.

(loonymoo @ Aug 1 2006 wrote:

i suppose its a good idea but if you find a non-virgin that you love would it matter you will still really like them and would you give them up for a virgin that may take a long time to find. and your first time should be special anyway no matter who you do it with or their experience.

Are you really 14 only, I mean you think exactly what I think and I am like 3 yrs elder to you. You are much more matured than your age.

cheers chirag i try and think things through a lot.

;D

(loonymoo @ Aug 1 2006 wrote:

cheers chirag i try and think things through a lot.

;D

thats the way to go keep it up

Well i would prefer an experienced person if i were you. My first time was with a guy like that and really i guess its better...

It does not matter that the other person with whom you are going to have sex is a virgin or a non-virgin. The only thing that matters is if you like the other person and is comfortable enough to have sex with him. It is totally your wish and will.

my girlfriend is virgin even tho we have sex. i wuz her 1st so that make her vigin, true? virgin is with only 1 person, rite? or is it more. i'm not sw sure. if boy have sex with one person, he virgin too, true?

NO! Once you have sex, you are not a virgin. Doing it with only one person is called monogamy.
I'm a virgin and I know guys and girls who are virgins. A lot of people aren't but, most of the ones I know who aren't, wish they were or wish they would have done it with someone else or said it really wasn't all that great. My mom says that guys don't know how to do it right until they are 25. LOL

My mom says it is not very fun the first time, too. But, maybe she is just trying to keep me from doing it. I'm saving mine, I don't want to do anything stupid and I don't want to give it to someone who turns out to be a jerk.

good for u. not caring if u had penis before. not big deal to me you. LMAO.. i kno how do it good and not 25 so not so true for u.
so girl with sex not virgin. i remember this good now on. monogamy. funny word. not funny idea but funny word for me. LMAO. .

i think ur rite bout wanting a virgin too for it being ur first time in all but if u fall for a non virgin then u should go for it..i mean being a virgin and then having sex wit a non virgin mite be uncomfortable tho because there more experienced but really u cant help who u fall for....

Doing anything right takes practice and, of course, practice takes time. Logically, the older a guy gets and the more sex he has, the better he gets at satisfying a girl's needs. Everything's fine if it were that simple.

Total fullfillment for a girl entails sensitivity and some virgin guys has more of them than a swashbuckling stud. Sex for guys is a physical outlet, for gals it's more on the phsycological aspects. In the end, what really counts is to have sex with somebody you like and cares for you in retun, especially if its the first time. A reason why it's the best to have sex within the context of love.

Peace!

My first time was with my boyfriend. Both of us were virgins when we did it. It was amazing! We were both scared and thinks of each other as a fragile being. We were so sensitive about each other. I would surely recommend it.

ok here is the deal i am 16 my boyfriend 17 and we are both vergins..... i plan on not haveing sex till i am at least in my 20 .....or untill i am married. ... my boyfriend the same way but he said 34 or untile heis married.just think if every teen sayed a vergin untill they where married no more ads or std's and there would but no babys left in shelters ........... i mean it we the yougsters of this generation stayed virgins as long as we could then we would stop some problems..... so why give it up now .....

ok i will make you all a deal i will be on in the mornning at 6:00 am my time so nc time ..... so chat with me ..... well lets make that 7:00 am i get sleepy on the weekends...

In my opinion an experienced in sex can give u better pleasure than a virgin or amateurs( inexperienced)

Well....i think it's better with a virgin the first time because you are both equal. If you are a virgin and the other is experience, you could feel embarassed of not knowing what too do, and that's ok. I think it's best between two virgins for the first time because there both equal, and love each other.

*blows out 25 candles* w00t! Time to do it right!

Haha.

@ OP: I can see why you'd want your first time to be with another virgin. But think of it this way: a non-virgin is less likely to really screw up the situation =).

okay the first time you have sex (at least in most cases... especially with two virgins) cannot even be considered "sex" maybe possibly a little it could be referred to the very formal and technical term intercourse lol
it's sloppy and awkward not to mention extremely short

so the first time you have sex could either be this very sloppy, awkward experience that you both will go through together as your first time...
or you could have sex with a more experienced partner who knows what they're doing

either way the person you decide to lose your virginity to should be the person you are commited to and love because it will be so much more special then...

remember once it's gone you can never get it back so be patient