Hey everyone, I have a small problem that I dont truly know hoe to deal eith very well.
My current girlfriend - 14 and freshmen as well as me - has been my GF for three months, and weve known each other since kindegarten so weve always been pretty tight. Shes a huge Christian so shes into the purity ring and taking things kinda slow (or at least not fast.) We also live near each other so we hang out a lot. Weve already cuddled couness times, in the process of cuddling, rubbed arms, backs, necks, behind the ears, etc. Weve held hands hugged - everything BUT kissing (and higher obviously.) Ive asked her (via text) about three times if she thinks shes ready for kising and every time she says "Idk, i guess ill know when it happens." And then one time i was rly pushing her for a straight answer bcuz i didnt wanna make her first kiss uncomfortable or unpleasent, and she told me she didnt think she was ready. Yet, about a month after she said that we apparently kinda accidently kissed while play fighting and she asked her friend if it counted, which gave me a sign. From what you guys have heard, do you think shes ready? Even if she isnt, could a kiss change that? And if not, how can I sense that she is without a straight "yes im ready?" Thanks to all that help!!!
My current girlfriend - 14 and freshmen as well as me - has been my GF for three months, and weve known each other since kindegarten so weve always been pretty tight. Shes a huge Christian so shes into the purity ring and taking things kinda slow (or at least not fast.) We also live near each other so we hang out a lot. Weve already cuddled couness times, in the process of cuddling, rubbed arms, backs, necks, behind the ears, etc. Weve held hands hugged - everything BUT kissing (and higher obviously.) Ive asked her (via text) about three times if she thinks shes ready for kising and every time she says "Idk, i guess ill know when it happens." And then one time i was rly pushing her for a straight answer bcuz i didnt wanna make her first kiss uncomfortable or unpleasent, and she told me she didnt think she was ready. Yet, about a month after she said that we apparently kinda accidently kissed while play fighting and she asked her friend if it counted, which gave me a sign. From what you guys have heard, do you think shes ready? Even if she isnt, could a kiss change that? And if not, how can I sense that she is without a straight "yes im ready?" Thanks to all that help!!!