ok so me and my gf have been going out for a couple months and we would talk about having sex. Well every time we go to have sex she stops before anything gets too serious. Finally I got fed up with being blue balled so much I asked her. She says I'm too big. Not long just "thick" as she put it. How can I convince her to have sex with me? I'm getting fed up with it. I always thought woman liked bigger men or wanted bigger packages on guys......
She wont have sex with me
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She's afraid its going to hurt...
She'll get over it if you don't keep pushing the issue or just assure her you will go easy and gentle and that it won't hurt for too long. -
You'll have to respect her choice and wait until she's ready to have sex. It's as simple as that in my opinion. *shrug*
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Yeah! That’s right you’ll have some wait for her. How do you change her mind? It's not like you're choosing the paint color for the walls. This is a serious and deep decision that each woman needs to make for herself. Respect her or let her find someone who will. Sounds like you don't deserve her.
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It's up to her - if you force her then you'll lose her. Just tell her that when you do have sex, you'll be gentle and will stop if she asks you to, and you'll wait as long as you need to. As long as you actually will though!
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Most condom companies make ones that have this numbing stuff in them intended to make you last longer. Now, if you turn one of those inside out & then you won't even have to wake her up.
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Take it easy on her. Make her understand that there's nothing to be afraid about and that you'll stop if ever she finds it uncomfortable. but you can't force her...
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Don't push her, its not fair on her and you'll end up loosing her anyway. As for being too "thick", it won't be a problem as long as you're gentle, slow, and she it fully relaxed and wet.
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Don't pressure her, that's the worst thing you could do. She might be a little scared that it might hurt, and so the best thing you could do is just let her warm up to that idea I guess.
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Good Ass Job. wrote:
Most condom companies make ones that have this numbing stuff in them intended to make you last longer. Now, if you turn one of those inside out & then you won't even have to wake her up.
hahahahhahahahhahahahha man I dont think that would ever work, those numbing lubes and condoms are the worst things to use ever in my opinion
yeah just take it easy, maybe just tell her to go on top and take her time, that way she can control all of it[CENTER] [/CENTER] -
Good Ass Job. wrote:
Most condom companies make ones that have this numbing stuff in them intended to make you last longer. Now, if you turn one of those inside out & then you won't even have to wake her up.
It would be rape. -
Honestly I think two months is far too soon to be considering sex anyways. I'll admit I'm guilty of it, but I deeply regret it. Just take your time with her and wait till she's ready.
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ivaiva wrote:
It would be rape.
not if she doesnt wake up, and if she does, just shout suprise hahaha
nah im just joshing you, yeah it would be rape[CENTER] [/CENTER] -
You being "fed up with it" equals exactly shit in this equation. She's not ready
Her vagina, her rules. DOnt continue to force the issue or not only will you not be having sex, you won't have a girlfriend either. -
You need to wait on her to be ready. Being fed up with her is not going to help anything. You need to be understanding and patient. ANd the size thing...most girls I know, myself included, don't want a huge guy because it hurts. The vagina is only at most 5-8 inches when fully aroused.
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