Hey Everyone,
So I have a complicated problem, but bear with me because I really need your advice..
So firstly I have a guy friend who I have known for years and years, we get along so well, he always knows how to make me feel better when I'm down, and is a genuinely sweet guy with me. I had recently found out through others that he was REALLY into me, but I didn't go with that because I thought I didn't like him like that, we were best friends nothing more.
Then about four weeks ago another friend asked me out, he's also sweet and really into music which I love, but I'm just not feeling anything, when we kiss I kinda count the seconds till it's over, which is such a horrible thing (I wish it was different because I feel so bad) I've keept it going because I thought I could grow some feelings for him, but I haven't, and just the other day I've realised why I cant... and that's becuase I think I really like my best guy friend, and it's taken me to get another boyfriend to realise this!
Now this is where I need advice, I don't know what to do about it, I feel like I can't break up with my bf because his family (especially his sister) loves me and he's feeling more and more for me everyday, I wish it could be easy and he just didn't like me but it can't, so where should I go from here?? HELP thanks so much guys xxx
So I have a complicated problem, but bear with me because I really need your advice..
So firstly I have a guy friend who I have known for years and years, we get along so well, he always knows how to make me feel better when I'm down, and is a genuinely sweet guy with me. I had recently found out through others that he was REALLY into me, but I didn't go with that because I thought I didn't like him like that, we were best friends nothing more.
Then about four weeks ago another friend asked me out, he's also sweet and really into music which I love, but I'm just not feeling anything, when we kiss I kinda count the seconds till it's over, which is such a horrible thing (I wish it was different because I feel so bad) I've keept it going because I thought I could grow some feelings for him, but I haven't, and just the other day I've realised why I cant... and that's becuase I think I really like my best guy friend, and it's taken me to get another boyfriend to realise this!
Now this is where I need advice, I don't know what to do about it, I feel like I can't break up with my bf because his family (especially his sister) loves me and he's feeling more and more for me everyday, I wish it could be easy and he just didn't like me but it can't, so where should I go from here?? HELP thanks so much guys xxx
