Bear with me, kind of a long story. And all real names have been changed.
There's this guy, Toby, who I've known for a while and he got my number a few weeks ago. I'm 18, and so is he. We decided to casually date, but the first night we hung out things went farther than I would have planned. So, during the week we hung out a few more times. I'm positive I'm not looking for anything serious. Just messing around and dating or whatever.
(*Note: I am not a virgin. I lost it to my ex boyfriend, whom I loved very much, and was with for about two years. I don't regret losing it to him in the slightest. Also, please take into account that I would never let a serious relationship go this fast.)
Regardless, we had only been hanging out a week, and we had sex. In retrospect, yes I regret sex with Toby. Because I know it was a bad decision, and it has complicated our casual dating situation a bit.
I didn't tell my best friends, because some things I would prefer to keep personal. However, Toby told one of his best friends, Robert, and Robert and my best friend Jenna have class together. Robert thought Jenna knew, and told her all about it. Jenna got pissed, and I denied having sex with Toby. Than today, Robert overheard Jenna and I talking, and I was telling her how ridiculous it was that people were talking about my personal life.
Robert assumed I was talking about Toby, and told Jenna he was going to text Toby about it.
Just now, I told Jenna the truth. And about how I lied and all this. I'm just worried and confused about what to do next. Toby is an awesome guy, but I don't want anything serious with him. Is it wrong to hook up, when we both know that I'm not interested in a serious relationship? And is it wrong that I want to keep some things I feel are very personal from my friends?
There's this guy, Toby, who I've known for a while and he got my number a few weeks ago. I'm 18, and so is he. We decided to casually date, but the first night we hung out things went farther than I would have planned. So, during the week we hung out a few more times. I'm positive I'm not looking for anything serious. Just messing around and dating or whatever.
(*Note: I am not a virgin. I lost it to my ex boyfriend, whom I loved very much, and was with for about two years. I don't regret losing it to him in the slightest. Also, please take into account that I would never let a serious relationship go this fast.)
Regardless, we had only been hanging out a week, and we had sex. In retrospect, yes I regret sex with Toby. Because I know it was a bad decision, and it has complicated our casual dating situation a bit.
I didn't tell my best friends, because some things I would prefer to keep personal. However, Toby told one of his best friends, Robert, and Robert and my best friend Jenna have class together. Robert thought Jenna knew, and told her all about it. Jenna got pissed, and I denied having sex with Toby. Than today, Robert overheard Jenna and I talking, and I was telling her how ridiculous it was that people were talking about my personal life.
Robert assumed I was talking about Toby, and told Jenna he was going to text Toby about it.
Just now, I told Jenna the truth. And about how I lied and all this. I'm just worried and confused about what to do next. Toby is an awesome guy, but I don't want anything serious with him. Is it wrong to hook up, when we both know that I'm not interested in a serious relationship? And is it wrong that I want to keep some things I feel are very personal from my friends?