Okay, so i am in a bit of a sticky situation. I have had this guy friend for a year or two and we are just friends with benifits. Aka. sex buddies. I always have told him that i loved him, just cuz it made the sex better. But he told me a couple hours ago that he really did love me. I dont want a relationship with him but i still wanna bone him! I have NO clue what to do... please help!
Friends with Benifits
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Personally, i think you should give up with him and come bone me! We would have alot more fun.
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ChaseM wrote:
Personally, i think you should give up with him and come bone me! We would have alot more fun.
HAHAHAHAHHA nah get out.
Why the hell did you say you loved him then?!?!?!?!
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Depends on how much you like him as a person, I guess. If you're distant from him enough as a friend, just tell him. Best case scenario(probably), he'll understand, not try and approach a relationship, and still have sex with you. Worst case scenario(probably), he'll just leave you alone.
If you DO want to be friends with him, I guess it's worth a shot to tell him anyway? -
No he doesn't know that i don't wanna be in a relationship. I'm hoping since he is gullible that he will just forget it and still have sex with me!
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why did you say you loved him tho? seriously?
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Kevmo7 wrote:
why did you say you loved him tho? seriously?
this is gonna be mega confusing for him
I agree why did you say you loved him -
Cuz it always made the sex 10x better than it was!
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if you are gonna talk the talk you gotta walk the walk or else there are gonna be problems like they are.
Regardless on how much better it made it, you shouldnt say that without truely meaning it, telling somebody you love them without actually loving them is one of the most heartless things you could do to a person in my opinion.
I think thats the single reason you are in this mess, but pointing fingers doesnt fix a problem, so I would say that you need to be very clear with him and say you do not want a relationship and you want things to continue how they are, he has two choices, to either accept that and carry things on how they are, or decide to stop, this is beyond your control now.[CENTER] [/CENTER] -
That's wasn't right and that wasn't nice.
You'll have to explain him that you lied when you said you love him and suggest to stay fuck buddies. -
All it takes is for one to be that 1% more attached than the other and this kind of thing is inevitable. Your desires aside, its probably best to move on, as keeping it would only hurt the dude.[COLOR="black"]When I'm not fighting mountain lions for sport, I read about broken homes, teenage depression, and other such life-improving awesomeness cause I'm weird like that[/COLOR]
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Way to toy with his feelings.
People will always talk about you
Might as well give them something to talk about -
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People will always talk about you
Might as well give them something to talk about -
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:o Bitches
People will always talk about you
Might as well give them something to talk about -
i think its awful that you are playing on him being gullible to get what you want. you are messing him around and its not fair, if you told him you loved him and he thought you were being serious you should have meant it, you have created someone he would want to love but if he knew that you were just messing him around then he might not love you all that much
btw it aint friends with benefits if he wants a relationship and you don't, its just you taking advantage[COLOR="Purple"][CENTER]Q.Anton [/CENTER][/COLOR] -
I know, right?