Finish before f**k?

    • Finish before f**k?

      I gave him about half a blow job and he loved it I did this twice but was to paranoid to finish and told him i would later he seemed to love it...almost too much.

      A lot of guys think a bj is better than sex...
      and i dont get pleasure from giving him a blow job and i dont want it to feel like a step down when me and him finaly have sex,so should i have him do it with me before i finish the blow job?

    • Re: Finish before f**k?

      Its a shame you don't get pleasure from oral as well, have you tried deepthroating? As a bi guy the pleasure from giving I found is primarily in the feeling of the head passing into and out of the throat.

      And as a guy who considers intercourse far inferior to blowjobs in terms of my pleasure I don't think you should really worry too much about it. A good blowjob doesn't make a guy not want to fuck you. There is less physical pleasure for him, but there is a much greater sense of emotional and psychological pleasure. Why do you give him a blowjob? Because you enjoy the pleasure of giving it to him. Why should it be any different that another sexual act switches who gets the most physical pleasure?
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    • Re: Finish before f**k?

      DeaExMachina wrote:

      Its a shame you don't get pleasure from oral as well, have you tried deepthroating? As a bi guy the pleasure from giving I found is primarily in the feeling of the head passing into and out of the throat.

      And as a guy who considers intercourse far inferior to blowjobs in terms of my pleasure I don't think you should really worry too much about it. A good blowjob doesn't make a guy not want to fuck you. There is less physical pleasure for him, but there is a much greater sense of emotional and psychological pleasure. Why do you give him a blowjob? Because you enjoy the pleasure of giving it to him. Why should it be any different that another sexual act switches who gets the most physical pleasure?


      thats a very good point...but i love giving him blow jobs...it just isnt very direct pleasure