So one of my very close friends that I've had a crush on for a while now finally asked me on a date this weekend. We planned this a week ago. Naturally, I was excited, and I agreed to it. However, two days before we were supposed to go out, he said that he wouldn't be able to make it because 1) it was his best friend's birthday the night before, and they were going to go partying and 2) he has exam finals the upcoming week, and his mom wants him to spend the rest of the weekend studying.
Of course I was disappointed but I understood (though the first reason kind of made me upset). We rescheduled our date for next weekend. However, I still wanted to see him, so we agreed that we'd hang out at a local parade the day after his friend's party this weekend.
He just told me he won't be able to make it because he's recovering from his "crazy night" with his friends. I don't normally get mad, and I had a feeling this was going to happen, but I'm starting to get really upset with him. This isn't the first time he's flaked on me. If we were just friends, I'd be ok with it, but things are starting to develop romantically and I'm not sure if this is what I want in a relationship. I've never been in a real relationship before, so I don't really know what I should do. I've been told just to be mad at him and ignore him completely, but I'm not sure if that's right... so what should I do?
I've never been in a real relationship before, and I have a feeling that if things work out it will be a long and happy relationship, since we've been best friends for four years. I want this to work out, but I'm not sure. Please help. D:
Of course I was disappointed but I understood (though the first reason kind of made me upset). We rescheduled our date for next weekend. However, I still wanted to see him, so we agreed that we'd hang out at a local parade the day after his friend's party this weekend.
He just told me he won't be able to make it because he's recovering from his "crazy night" with his friends. I don't normally get mad, and I had a feeling this was going to happen, but I'm starting to get really upset with him. This isn't the first time he's flaked on me. If we were just friends, I'd be ok with it, but things are starting to develop romantically and I'm not sure if this is what I want in a relationship. I've never been in a real relationship before, so I don't really know what I should do. I've been told just to be mad at him and ignore him completely, but I'm not sure if that's right... so what should I do?
I've never been in a real relationship before, and I have a feeling that if things work out it will be a long and happy relationship, since we've been best friends for four years. I want this to work out, but I'm not sure. Please help. D: