Depressed.. Need Advice.

michalukt · Nov 4th 2007, 4:03am

ok, so i've been very sad lately...
my bf broke up with me and stopped talking to me..
we started talking again and sorta lead me on and then went back out with his other ex...
so im really sad
and my parents keep bugging me and yelling at me for stupid stuff..
school is stressing me out and everytime this happens
i feel like clawing my skin off...
i just get this itch like there is something under my skin
and i want to just grab a knife and cut
i've never done it yet..
but it seems to be the best way to relieve it..
any other ideas?

Fashion · Nov 4th 2007, 4:28pm

A similar situation to what i was in when my ex broke up with me. He started to lead me on and then said it was all a joke. It isnt very nice at all.
It took time with me to get out of it. Seeing a mentor helped the other half.

Nicole91 · Nov 4th 2007, 4:55pm

he's not worth it, you'll find a man one day not a boy. Take your anger oout on something else other than yourself they say sports is a good one.

username #90 · Nov 4th 2007, 5:07pm

get over him

Tomski · Nov 4th 2007, 5:08pm

i'm sorry to here what you ex did to you

but try not to think about him and spend time with some close friends. Start doing stuff you love and talking with people you love and soon hopefully he'll be out of your mind forever. It is hard though and I won't underestimate how bad you'll be feeling because him but just try

also like nicole said you need to have something that you can vent frustration, anger and any other feelings you have. Sports a good thing but journals/diarys can help. I know when I have been a little depressed in the past writing down how I was feeling was a good way to express my feelings.

good luck! :)

Fashion · Nov 4th 2007, 5:33pm

soljah wrote:

get over him

That wont make her feel better.
As a matter of fact its not that easy to.

Tomski · Nov 4th 2007, 5:37pm

kat1990 wrote:

That wont make her feel better.
As a matter of fact its not that easy to.

Agreed, the "get over him" comment was neither helpfull nor sympathetic.

username #90 · Nov 4th 2007, 5:51pm

tomski wrote:

Agreed, the "get over him" comment was neither helpfull or sympathetic.

and... she'll feel better if she gets over him than she will if she keeps moaning. and kat... get over that

Fashion · Nov 4th 2007, 6:48pm

Yeah, if someone told me to get over someone, id reply saying "I cant just get over them like that"

username #90 · Nov 4th 2007, 6:58pm

yea well its not you

rollercoasterskittle · Nov 4th 2007, 7:16pm

Honestly, I think you don't deserve that all. You are worth more than the crap he's put you through. You know there's so much better than that in the world and one day you'll find a boy who makes your whole world and makes you forget about all that he's done.

Maybe try taking up a hobby.. something you like.. whatever that is and it can make you feel better. It'll be hard but just remember, things will get better eventually even if it doesn't seem like it.

Fashion · Nov 4th 2007, 9:19pm

soljah wrote:

yea well its not you

you shouldnt be expecting people to just take their mind off someone they loved within the matter of a night..
That just doesnt happen!

Tomski · Nov 4th 2007, 9:27pm

kat1990 wrote:

you shouldnt be expecting people to just take their mind off someone they loved within the matter of a night..
That just doesnt happen!

I totaly agree with you butI wouldn't waste your energy to be honest because I doubt they'll take much notice.

sheer58 · Nov 4th 2007, 11:02pm

The same happened to me with my ex...It may take a lot of time to get over him but you should try hard to do other things ... try to move on...forget about him...he isn't worth you pain or your tears...

username #90 · Nov 4th 2007, 11:09pm

kat1990 wrote:

you shouldnt be expecting people to just take their mind off someone they loved within the matter of a night..
That just doesnt happen!

she does not say how long ago this happened

Fashion · Nov 4th 2007, 11:26pm

tomski wrote:

I totaly agree with you butI wouldn't waste your energy to be honest because I doubt they'll take much notice.

Maybe not. But she was looking for advice :p
Then again you have a point.

Tomski · Nov 4th 2007, 11:30pm

I was talking abou Soljah when i wrote that just to clarify

hope you don't think I was talking about the girl asking for advise :S

michalukt · Nov 5th 2007, 2:36am

it happened a few weeks ago...

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