How Did You Figure It Out?

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      rainbow-cloud wrote:

      I used to be lesbian haha but now i know that i like both girls and guys
      so yeah im bi and i was 13 when i was lesbian , but iam 16 now and i have kinda figured it out that i like both genders.


      You didn't used to be lesbian: you just THOUGHT you were. It's the same thing when someone who thought they were straight before end up being gay... they weren't ever actually STRAIGHT, because sexuality isn't a choice.
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      I was convinced I was strait till about 14-15 when I stumbled upon some gay themed art / comics and found that it turned me on as much as the strait stuff. I have never had an issue with the GLBT crowd so I just shrugged and accepted it. I figured that I now have more fish in my ocean. ;P
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      Back in January, I told my sister I was a lesbian. Big mistake. Turns out, I was confused and for some reason pushing myself to tell her, even though I knew she wouldn't understand because she's only 10. I AM BISEXUAL. i like boys too. (girls a little more though...theyre hotter) :wink:
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      I've always felt different about relationships. I dated guys and liked them, but I felt like something was off. When I was 15 I met a girl who was a lesbian and found that I was extremely attracted to her. I consider myself bi because I attracted to both genders physically and mentally
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      I'm still sort of questioning, but at this point, I'm pretty sure I'm somewhere in the bi- poly- pansexual range.

      I've been questioning for a long time, if I'm going to be honest - since i found out it even existed, really, and when I had my first bi friend - but the most recent and developing questions came about from last Halloween, when I ended up cuddling and playing footsie with a friend of mine. My entire group of friends is really close, always hugging and cuddling and such, so it wasn't weird that that ended up happening, really, but I ended up having a kind of battle with myself about whether I had a crush on her or not.

      Turned out that was a crush, and a pretty full-blown one at that :P She's bi, but has a boyfriend, so I've kind of been working on gradually moving on - now I think I might have a crush on another close friend, which I probably have about as much of a chance with, but hey, baby steps XD
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      Hmm ... I found out recently, well actually a few months ago. At the age of 12 I started watching lesbian and straight porn. By time, I thought of having sex with another girl, but I also loved the idea of just normal sex ... so I figured I was bi, I guess.
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      I am 14 and when I think about it I must have been about 10 when I saw Jessica Ennis on TV and I remember thinking she was gorgeous and being really attracted to her. Still am to this day, but being aged only 10 I thought it was normal and moved on. In 2009 when Glee first aired and I saw Naya Rivera for the first time I knew I was in love. Head over heels, I feel the same way about Heather Morris and Dianna Agron. There are lots of other girls out there whose pants I want to get into. I like one or two celebrity men and a boy from my school. I would say I am attracted to both but could live completely without boys but am bisexual. Oh and my first kiss ever was with a girl, that should have been a giveaway. ;)

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      I forgot to mention, I also am completely in love with my best friend. She is a girl. So am I, didn't clarify that.
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      I kind of always knew (since I started noticing stuff like that), but I was in denial about liking girls for a long time.

      I had a crush on my sister's friend and I thought at first it was just because she was cool, but then I started to think, maybe I like like her... and yeah. I did.

      I go through phases where I like girls more than guys and vice versa, but it also depends on who I'm attracted to at the time. Right now, I really want a girl in my life. :blush:
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      For a while I was in denial about the whole liking girls thing. Even though I had crushes on girls, I told myself it was just because they were cool. When I finally accepted it I thought I was a lesbian because I like girls way, way more than I like guys. Later on I realized I actually like guys as well. So now I think I'm bi/pan, or something of the sort.
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      I figured it out when i was having a 3 way with a boy and a girl at 15. she was ridding me and she was almost in my face. so i turned around and the guy simply put his dick in my mouth. it was awesome and i felt soo good. i later anal fucked him while licking the girl and it was just as good. in the end i cummed all over both their faces