I do not really understand. Are you gay or bi ?
Actually if you are, I would tell you that you're not bound to try out anything anal. Some gays never do anal. I tried, I disliked, I don't do it now. Nothing more complicated. If you are not able to try, so you dislike that. Problem resolved.
Perhaps you could try to put your fingers in your ass in order to see if you really dislike that.

Since anal isn't a strictly homo thing you can't be homophobic, but I feel like you probably already knew that so this thread is pointless.

Also, anal can be clean. So your "I have a concept of hygiene and cleanliness" is bullshit. Preference is preference, but don't imply that other people who do it are dirty.

I myself am repulsed in trying anal myself. But I always liked the site of either sexes being naked. I've been with both sexes, and my current girlfriend is relieved by my detesting anal. My "f**kbuddy* wanted to try anal on me. I refused and I said that oral was enough. I tried anal once, we clearly didn't do it right because my butt hurt. ALOT!:o But I don't intend on doing it ever again.

sounds like ur straight dude see what happens when you watch lesbian porn

i personally really like it, but its a 'time and place' thing. I also knwo some straight guy friends of mine who also like it. the way i see it, if we are made in a way in which its enjoyable, then go ahead

I understand you. i cannot stand the idea of RECEIVING an anal. but that is because i hate to be put under submission. you may hate the opposite