I am not openly bisexual. No one, not even my closest friends, know. I’ve been hiding it for a long time, because I go to a high school where coming out would be devastating. I mean, it would be so bad that I would have to move. I am okay with not being open, because I didn’t think I would ever encounter a guy that I would want to actually do anything with.
However, there’s this guy. I’ve known him for a long time, but I have just recently (Past year) gotten to know he and become good friends. He is perfect. Everything I look for in a guy. Of course, though, I didn’t think he was into guys. Then, I started noticing things, and I started to think he is into guys. Me and my low self esteem didn’t act on it, because I just knew that he wasn’t into me.
Now, I really cannot fight it anymore. I want to start off slow, and begin talking to him more. Maybe throw in some hints that I am into him. I just don’t know how to do it. And to top it all off, I found out today that he is talking to another guy that goes to our school… I know it’s my own fault for not coming out sooner, but now I’m completely destroyed. I still want to try flirting, and see how that goes, but I just do not know how to go about it.
Moral of the story: I need advice. I want to know how to start off slow with giving little hints and flirts. Keep in mind that this is the first time I have ever done this, with a guy, and that I am not okay with coming out to anyone. I might be okay with coming out to him, so it has to be hints and flirts that I can retract if need be. I know this all sounds weird, but I am really hoping you all will understand. So, can a fellow guy get some advice? Anything is appreciated.
However, there’s this guy. I’ve known him for a long time, but I have just recently (Past year) gotten to know he and become good friends. He is perfect. Everything I look for in a guy. Of course, though, I didn’t think he was into guys. Then, I started noticing things, and I started to think he is into guys. Me and my low self esteem didn’t act on it, because I just knew that he wasn’t into me.
Now, I really cannot fight it anymore. I want to start off slow, and begin talking to him more. Maybe throw in some hints that I am into him. I just don’t know how to do it. And to top it all off, I found out today that he is talking to another guy that goes to our school… I know it’s my own fault for not coming out sooner, but now I’m completely destroyed. I still want to try flirting, and see how that goes, but I just do not know how to go about it.
Moral of the story: I need advice. I want to know how to start off slow with giving little hints and flirts. Keep in mind that this is the first time I have ever done this, with a guy, and that I am not okay with coming out to anyone. I might be okay with coming out to him, so it has to be hints and flirts that I can retract if need be. I know this all sounds weird, but I am really hoping you all will understand. So, can a fellow guy get some advice? Anything is appreciated.