for it

I dont see why having sex before marrying would be a problem.
If you care about each other then I dont see any problem.

i was raised in a very strict christian household so i was yaught that sex before marriage is a big no no. but of course once i moved out of my dads house i turned my back on my religion and i had ore-marital sex
i regret it... only cause it was with my ex.... and well turns out he only used me for sex
he didnt care about my spiritual feelings and forced me into it and i gave into his pee pressure

You shouldn't buy a car without test driving it.

lol

I am for sex when I am ready. I was ready before marriage (by the way, I am 16yo, and unmarried), and very happy to be sexually active since 12. no reason to wait, unless you are sure to do so. It only a matter of your choice today in western world.

^^This
I mean seriously most people want to have one marriage that means one person sleeping with you for the "rest of your life." I would want to make sure that I could satisfy my partner and vis versa.

i always figured i would lose my virginity to the person i was gonna be with for the rest of my life as i was taught virginity is sacred and should be treated as such
i love my sex life now dont get my wrong so i guess i have my ex to thank for helping me get over my fear of sex.. i was always scared of sex. i had performance insecurities but my boyfriend never complains

All fun and games until you get chlamydia and die.

My family raised me very christian so I guess I have some fucked up views on virginity. I don't call myself a virgin but i'm saving a part of myself for marriage, if that makes sense... might be TMI :blush:

xxemobladexx wrote:

i gave into his pee pressure

That's awful but i'm sorry that's a hilarious typo :rofl:

Double-post

Because you will most certainly get chlamydia and die.

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Why not? I don't see any reasons not to have sex before marriage.

Pretty much guaranteed

Why debate it? It's not like people will know who you're fucking, unless you tell them. My family still thinks I'm a virgin, leave it be.

lol really? lucky you
my parents and family think im a whore even though at the time i had only slept with one guy.... in total 3 over a 3 year time period;

Why did you tell them..?

Definitely believe in sex before marriage. I'm open to the thought of marriage, but I'm not sure if I really want to get married or if I even will, so theres no point in waiting. It's a cute thought to wait until marriage, but I'd be way too sexually frustrated to wait it out.

Sex after a wedding is pretty difficult to accomplish and too old fashioned. A lot of people are for sex before marriage so you'd find it hard finding a partner who is willing to wait so long. It would probably encourage them to go find sex elsewhere.
It may be easy for you to decide now when you're young and haven't experienced a relationship yet, but sex is a huge part of a relationship and it truly brings you together. It would be awful to get married and then realise the guy is shit in bed and you do not experience that connection with him.

Bam. This,

In my opinion Sex is marriage..Although, I'm sure many disagree with me. If one does have sex, then they better make sure they don't have sex with anyone else...

Again, my opinion.