Her reasons of hating me are legitimate. About a year ago he tried to get me to leave my fiance for him... She used his phone and saw my rejection in his message inbox. She pretty much banned him from seeing or talking to me ever again.
We have started to talk again, of course while she is not around but he has matured and doesn't want anything but the friendship we had back. But we really can't do that because if she even found out we were texting she would flip. I know her hatred comes more from jealousy than anything. My best friend and I did have a history but we never dated or had sex we kissed on a rare occasion but it was like a grandma kisses.
I just I really want my best friend back and he wants me back as a best friend we just do not know how to approach his girlfriend. My fiance is fine with it bc he trusts me and knows I wouldn't do anything to ruin what we have.
I just don't know how to get his gf to understand that I'm not trying to take him and he's not trying to leave.
Any advice or should I just let it go and try and move on.
And don't get me wrong I have tried but it's really hard to let go of someone who was the only one who kept you together at times and helped me see that I could become more than what I thought I could be. He's my best friend he's like a brother to me now.I just don't know what to do
We have started to talk again, of course while she is not around but he has matured and doesn't want anything but the friendship we had back. But we really can't do that because if she even found out we were texting she would flip. I know her hatred comes more from jealousy than anything. My best friend and I did have a history but we never dated or had sex we kissed on a rare occasion but it was like a grandma kisses.
I just I really want my best friend back and he wants me back as a best friend we just do not know how to approach his girlfriend. My fiance is fine with it bc he trusts me and knows I wouldn't do anything to ruin what we have.
I just don't know how to get his gf to understand that I'm not trying to take him and he's not trying to leave.
Any advice or should I just let it go and try and move on.
And don't get me wrong I have tried but it's really hard to let go of someone who was the only one who kept you together at times and helped me see that I could become more than what I thought I could be. He's my best friend he's like a brother to me now.I just don't know what to do
I said all that whilst I was single too. In your case, you're fucking engaged fgs! Remind her of that and that you're completely devoted to your partner and you would do nothing to ruin it. You could also say you get along better with guys as friends.