Ive been seeing my new gf for about 6-7 weeks now and we decided to have sex last saturday. it didnt go well, i couldnt get it inside her and as it transpired after me trying to shove it in that she was a virgin. She has just admitted to me that she was really scared and just wanted to please me by having sex.

So the situation is that whilst she technically may no longer be a virgin, we didnt actually have full penetrative sex. Im looking for some advice from you girls on how you would like to be put at ease and any techniques that may help when we get round to having sex again to make it easier and less painful.

no one got any tips?

really late reply sorry.

weve tried 3 times now, just about managed something that could be called sex on the last try, but havnt cum at all yet with her. tried everything i know, fingering and foreplay for ages, going down on her. made her orgasm. shes just so nervous, dries up so fast when i get my penis near her.

I love her to bits but shes so shy about it all, willing to keep trying and im sure it will get better. just got to hope it gets to the point of naughtiness that i like.