One question,
Should a mother scream and swear at her child? Especially over trivial matters.
For a recent example, I went downstairs into the kitchen to get a tylenol for my headache. It was about 1:11 am in the morning but I couldn't sleep with the pain. My sister was up playing video games downstairs so I spoke a little to her, too loudly apparently.
Because suddenly I heard my mom storm out of her room and shouting my name, then she literally screamed at me get the fuck to bed you shit, I guess I snapped back at her a little by saying fucking hell seriously? I have a damn headache and my stomach was hurting (like usual, I have bad stomach problems) I can't remember every word she said but she starting screaming Fuck you and you fucking bastard woke me up, get the hell to bed, and continuous fuck you's (And I mean really screaming, it was scary). Then I was on the verge of tears but just stood there, then I heard her slam her door and shouting stuff like fucking cunt, asshole, Bitch and what not.
She called me a fucking cunt like 3 times.
I don't think a mother should act like that but I suppose I'm in the wrong...I can't understand why she never talks like that to my older sister who stays up usually to 4 am, and mentally abuses my mom every day.
But this is probably why I have depression and anxiety, I'm 17 already but this has been going on since I was about 12, maybe 11.
Is this okay? I know it's not but I just don't know what to do about it. And this happens so often I'm just used to crying and go about my day and wait for the next argument. I'm mostly worried on how this is going to affect me in the long run.
Should a mother scream and swear at her child? Especially over trivial matters.
For a recent example, I went downstairs into the kitchen to get a tylenol for my headache. It was about 1:11 am in the morning but I couldn't sleep with the pain. My sister was up playing video games downstairs so I spoke a little to her, too loudly apparently.
Because suddenly I heard my mom storm out of her room and shouting my name, then she literally screamed at me get the fuck to bed you shit, I guess I snapped back at her a little by saying fucking hell seriously? I have a damn headache and my stomach was hurting (like usual, I have bad stomach problems) I can't remember every word she said but she starting screaming Fuck you and you fucking bastard woke me up, get the hell to bed, and continuous fuck you's (And I mean really screaming, it was scary). Then I was on the verge of tears but just stood there, then I heard her slam her door and shouting stuff like fucking cunt, asshole, Bitch and what not.
She called me a fucking cunt like 3 times.
I don't think a mother should act like that but I suppose I'm in the wrong...I can't understand why she never talks like that to my older sister who stays up usually to 4 am, and mentally abuses my mom every day.
But this is probably why I have depression and anxiety, I'm 17 already but this has been going on since I was about 12, maybe 11.
Is this okay? I know it's not but I just don't know what to do about it. And this happens so often I'm just used to crying and go about my day and wait for the next argument. I'm mostly worried on how this is going to affect me in the long run.