Alright so , I've been crushing on this guy for so long now (a few months) and he's just kind of slowing me down i guess? When I started liking him we used to talk everyday with no problems and one day I was absent from school and my bestfriend and her boyfriend followed my crush around and asked him if he liked me and he said yes which made me so happy but the next day is when he started ignoring me and I didn't even say anything to me which I think he just lead me on.. Now I think he likes some other girl because he was at his friends house and on snapchat his friend was like "(my crushs name) if you lay a finger on me I'll tell everyone your crush and how you look for her everytime you say her name" which made me so confused and a little bit upset and it's just so frustrating and I'm planning to try and talk to him in like 2 weeks after school before our mid term (2 weeks off) before it's really too late but idk what to say?! And before people say "move on" and stuff , I've tried . I've cried over him so many times and I can't , this sounds so cliché but he's perfect , he has every trait that makes a boy my type . I'm just confused .
Did he lead me on?
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Oh oh oh!! And there's this big disco on this month and I've been planning to try get him to go along with his friends so I can meet (basically kiss/make out with him) but idk how??
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Seems you're deeply in love or such. But the way you describe this "case" I would rather advise you to forget this "perfect" guy. Cause if he is no longer interested in you, at least he could explain the reason to you. Okay, that would hurt you anyway, but it would at least be honest and perfect in a strange way.
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lliam wrote:
Seems you're deeply in love or such. But the way you describe this "case" I would rather advise you to forget this "perfect" guy. Cause if he is no longer interested in you, at least he could explain the reason to you. Okay, that would hurt you anyway, but it would at least be honest and perfect in a strange way.
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Well, I think that everybody kinda expierenced it someway.
I'd the same problem with a girl with whom I had good relationship just as friends. And suddenly there were very different feelings than just to be friends.
I've never told her that I love her. I never asked her if she loves me ... just for similar reasons as you described it, cause for the fear of what she might answer.
But if your crush ridicules or ignores you constantly, you should learn to ignore him.
Of course, in your case it's easier said than done. Just because you have strong feelings for him and meet him almost every day at school and such.
But at least you could try to develop strategies to ignore him. The more you are dealing with it, the higher the chance that it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy.
And of course it helps to do stuff with other friends to distract yourself or so. -
My boyfriend ( non sexual but wish ) in 7th grade was my best also in 8th ( non sexual but wish ). I preferred another guy ( non sexual but wish ) and had another guy I like in between ( non sexual but wish ). How make sense of it all. The one I like best, a school love of many, hates me, but the teachers and the girls like him and I make sure such teachers know I love him and that I know they love him ... English teachers, and they make me go to summer school as a result ... but he is already of toward a life outside the school ( social issue for his kind of guy ). The middle guy I am unable to make sense to nor of but he tries to beat me up and fails. My buddy is one half. I do not bother with the guy under the car. I fail to befriend my real old love from grade three, who is straight. He be number four. Number five from 6th grade disappears. I am sure you have similar various feelings. I did learn one thing or two or three. ONE --- I am me and you do not control me. TWO --- I love you but I am not under your control. THREE --- I love but there are many fish in the sea. I remember that song and never forget it. EVER Break my heart but there are more. I mean, yes, many ways to break and also make a heart. That is another song.
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