Hi everyone, i'm new here. I'm a 14 year old girl and i came here to ask for advice. Basically 3 months ago my mom grounded me for a whole year because i was not doing well at school. my grades had been slipping and she found out i was seeing boys behind her back. She had told me i can't have a boyfriend until i am 18 and because i disobeyed her and because my grades are slipping she handed me the harshest punishment that came into her head and also reminded me i'm banned me from seeing boys anymore. I can't see boys until i am 18 and if i disobey again i will get punished more.
So now i am at home all the time after school,weekends and during school breaks,not allowed out at all, not allowed to see friends outside of school. i am allowed one hour on the internet a day usually for doing study but i can't listen to music or watch tv. All i can do is read,books, write and study in my room. I get chores to do which passes the time, but this is killing me. I've done 3 months so far and its so boring, how can i cope with another 9 months?. i wish my mom wasn't so strict!
Do you think i deserved this punishment? Any advice on how to come to terms it and make the best of it? Right now it feels like forever and it makes me feel really depressed. Its the boredom thats the worst part of it and its going on for another 9 months! Its too long!
Also is it fair that i can't see boys? I really like hanging out with them and having a boyfriend. Waiting until i am 18 is just way to long. Any other girls here banned from seeing boys? or anyone here get punished hard by their moms?
i think my punishment is too long and its really unfair
So now i am at home all the time after school,weekends and during school breaks,not allowed out at all, not allowed to see friends outside of school. i am allowed one hour on the internet a day usually for doing study but i can't listen to music or watch tv. All i can do is read,books, write and study in my room. I get chores to do which passes the time, but this is killing me. I've done 3 months so far and its so boring, how can i cope with another 9 months?. i wish my mom wasn't so strict!
Do you think i deserved this punishment? Any advice on how to come to terms it and make the best of it? Right now it feels like forever and it makes me feel really depressed. Its the boredom thats the worst part of it and its going on for another 9 months! Its too long!
Also is it fair that i can't see boys? I really like hanging out with them and having a boyfriend. Waiting until i am 18 is just way to long. Any other girls here banned from seeing boys? or anyone here get punished hard by their moms?
i think my punishment is too long and its really unfair