So about 4 months ago I invited a cute and SUPER SHY girl I really liked for a long period of time (more than 4 years- we study at the same school and we live near each other). I called her after a party, And asked if she wants to go out on a movie with me. she answered I don`t know. I said: Well, I will call you in a few days and I will ask again. And so i did. in this time she answered look, I really don`t know... I do not think it is a good idea. I said well.. maybe some other time. goodbye. Its been 3 months from this call and I can`t stop thinking about her.
since then she never looked me in the eyes, nor spoke to me. we didn`t even said hello. Before that we were not super close but we had "neighbor" relationship. one time I saw she walked behind me to her home (it was about a month ago) and I stopped "to speak on the phone" I wanted her to pass me and then to go and talk with her. she probably understood that and moved to the other side of the road - this was unusual because as i said we live near each other and we went home.
before three days I walked to school and almost Encountered her. she looked at me. then turned around and kept walking to school. I had to make it at time to class so i walked faster and bypassed her.
I got really tired from that and clearly she doesn`t feel comfortable around me so I can`t talk to her personally.
I thought about sending her a message:
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Hi, Its X, I really do not like chatting in the phone, but I can tell that you do not feel comfortable near me, and it can be really awkward to encounter you. I have always seen in you a friend and a really cute girl and when I asked you to go out I didn`t want to make things become so awkward. So, if you are ok with that, I want to make things right.
***
if she will answer and i will fill that its right i will ask he:, btw, you didn`t changed the answer about going out, did you?
I want your advice about 2 things:
1. is it ok to text her? or I should speak with her?
2. Is it smart to ask her again like i wrote few lines before?
thank you.
since then she never looked me in the eyes, nor spoke to me. we didn`t even said hello. Before that we were not super close but we had "neighbor" relationship. one time I saw she walked behind me to her home (it was about a month ago) and I stopped "to speak on the phone" I wanted her to pass me and then to go and talk with her. she probably understood that and moved to the other side of the road - this was unusual because as i said we live near each other and we went home.
before three days I walked to school and almost Encountered her. she looked at me. then turned around and kept walking to school. I had to make it at time to class so i walked faster and bypassed her.
I got really tired from that and clearly she doesn`t feel comfortable around me so I can`t talk to her personally.
I thought about sending her a message:
***
Hi, Its X, I really do not like chatting in the phone, but I can tell that you do not feel comfortable near me, and it can be really awkward to encounter you. I have always seen in you a friend and a really cute girl and when I asked you to go out I didn`t want to make things become so awkward. So, if you are ok with that, I want to make things right.
***
if she will answer and i will fill that its right i will ask he:, btw, you didn`t changed the answer about going out, did you?
I want your advice about 2 things:
1. is it ok to text her? or I should speak with her?
2. Is it smart to ask her again like i wrote few lines before?
thank you.