so I have this friend. She's a girl, (duh) and I think I have a crush on her. The thing is, I thought I was straight! Just the little things she does that i notice, like how she tilts her head slightly to the side when she asks a question, or how she likes to harmonise with anyone singing a song she likes. I'm not sure what to do, and I don't want to tell her, not only because I don't want to change things, but because I change crushes rather quickly sometimes, and I'm afraid that this is another one of those cases. Someone help
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I think you should just keep quiet, if it's just a crush,I went with my best pal, and it was great for a while but she knew I was still into boys, and got herself a girlfriend,left me in limbo,but we are still mates, remember you dont want to ruin your friendship.
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I agree with L Rae. Wait a bit, maybe a few weeks, and see if your feelings change. If they grow it might be more than a crush, if they vanish it was just a crush. But if they grow, you should talk to her. I mean, if you love her, it would be great when she feels the same. If not, you can still be friends. Just be open about it and don't push anything.curious open-minded short but not so short guy from Germany. open for conversations/PMs, all topics, all ages, all genders
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hey guys, thanks for the advice one thing though, is that I've been having these thoughts off and on since winter, and it's summer now, so should I tell her or what?
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it never really leaves, but sometimes it's stronger than other times.
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Belle potter wrote:
it never really leaves, but sometimes it's stronger than other times.
I'm always available to talk. PM me if you want
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is there any other way, though? Like really, I don't want to tell her. I have left subtle hints that she wouldn't take as weird because I'm just a weird person in general, and she has made it clear she doesn't reciprocate the feelings. Also, I have waited my whole life to have a friend like her and now that I finally have it, I don't want to screw things up. I don't know what I want, but I CAN'T tell her. I know she likes girls as well but she doesn't see me that way and I'm really scared.
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