.....I need advice. I've been dating this guy for a solid year, and things are going amazingly. But this weekend I found out that one of my best friends (we'll call her virginia) is seriously mad at me for 'ditching the girls all the time to pay attention to my bf'. I sent her a message on facebook asking her about it. She never replied and instead started talking about the situation to our other best friend(we'll call her britney) and complaining about it even more. To make matters worse, the britney, my best friend in the world, lied to me when i asked if she'd heard anything new from the virginia..... I would have believed her except for the fact that her twin sister got on her facebook and copied and pasted the conversations for me. I knew this so i kept promting her to tell me what she knew, saying things like "i tell you what people say about you if they talk bc i think you deserve to know. is there anything i need to know?" to which she says "no of course not, i would tell you."........
so the problem is, what do i do to fix this situation? I love my bf wholeheartedly, and i really dont think i ditch the girls to hang out with him. i only have 1 class with him a day, he has basketball practice/games right after school every day, and we're only allowed to see each other once a weekend. so during the two breaks we have during the school day (lunch and break time) i hang out with him. is that so bad? virginia has multiple classes with her guy, can see him as often during the week as they want to, and after school too bc he doesnt play any sports.
virginia is also mad at me because apparently me and her bf are tight. which we are. when she sees us talking, she gives us these looks like "what the heck is going on here?"...... and like friday in the hallway he came up to me and was talking to me about what he's getting her for hre bday. but again, from across the hall she sees us and gives us this look-to-kill.
what can i do to make her understand my side if she won't even reply when i try to talk to her about it?
so the problem is, what do i do to fix this situation? I love my bf wholeheartedly, and i really dont think i ditch the girls to hang out with him. i only have 1 class with him a day, he has basketball practice/games right after school every day, and we're only allowed to see each other once a weekend. so during the two breaks we have during the school day (lunch and break time) i hang out with him. is that so bad? virginia has multiple classes with her guy, can see him as often during the week as they want to, and after school too bc he doesnt play any sports.
virginia is also mad at me because apparently me and her bf are tight. which we are. when she sees us talking, she gives us these looks like "what the heck is going on here?"...... and like friday in the hallway he came up to me and was talking to me about what he's getting her for hre bday. but again, from across the hall she sees us and gives us this look-to-kill.
what can i do to make her understand my side if she won't even reply when i try to talk to her about it?