Right. I think I'm having some sort of identity crisis or freak out or something. I dont know who I am anymore. Sorry in advance for rambling on. I tend to do this in situations like this.
I slept over at my friends house last night. Hes come out as gay a while ago. He told me months before anyone else so that's the level of friendship we have. I mean we've been friends since like pre kindergarten. I've had some intrest in trying out jerking off with a friend and figured he would be the one most likely to not be weirded out by me asking, and he was up for it.
Bypass the details of what happened, it basically turned into us doing everything but sex. Thats shock 1 for me. Shock 2 was I was the one who kept pushing things further. Shock 3 is what's completely making me question who I am as a person, I enjoyed all of it. None of it felt wrong like OMG stop this right now this isn't right. I've never been attracted to boys before. I mean sometimes I see someone and think he's pretty cute but once I actually realize I had the thought I stop myself from thinking it because it's insane. It's not who I am. I'm supposed to like girls.
What's making this even more confusing is I have a girlfriend. I like her. We kiss. That doesn't feel wrong with her. We haven't done other stuff yet though. Is it not going to feel right with her? I don't know what to think anymore
I slept over at my friends house last night. Hes come out as gay a while ago. He told me months before anyone else so that's the level of friendship we have. I mean we've been friends since like pre kindergarten. I've had some intrest in trying out jerking off with a friend and figured he would be the one most likely to not be weirded out by me asking, and he was up for it.
Bypass the details of what happened, it basically turned into us doing everything but sex. Thats shock 1 for me. Shock 2 was I was the one who kept pushing things further. Shock 3 is what's completely making me question who I am as a person, I enjoyed all of it. None of it felt wrong like OMG stop this right now this isn't right. I've never been attracted to boys before. I mean sometimes I see someone and think he's pretty cute but once I actually realize I had the thought I stop myself from thinking it because it's insane. It's not who I am. I'm supposed to like girls.
What's making this even more confusing is I have a girlfriend. I like her. We kiss. That doesn't feel wrong with her. We haven't done other stuff yet though. Is it not going to feel right with her? I don't know what to think anymore
My (#12) stats:
Fall season:
Avg per game: 12.2 pts, 3.8 ast, 1.1 stl
Team: 9-1; 1st place
Winter season:
APG: 16.9 pts, 3.4 ast, 1.4 stl
Team: 20-9; 1st place
If you are thinking of suicide, please reach out for help! Call the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline at 988 (United States) or click HERE for your local numbers. People care about you!
Fall season:
Avg per game: 12.2 pts, 3.8 ast, 1.1 stl
Team: 9-1; 1st place
Winter season:
APG: 16.9 pts, 3.4 ast, 1.4 stl
Team: 20-9; 1st place
If you are thinking of suicide, please reach out for help! Call the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline at 988 (United States) or click HERE for your local numbers. People care about you!