Hi! My name is addy and I’m thirteen, which means I’m in eighth grade. My friend, who is also my age, has a boyfriend who she is really cute with, like insanely cute!
The only thing I have an issue with is how young they both are. I feel that like sooner or later they would have to break up(it’s rare that you get married to the person you dated in middle school) and honestly, I’m scared for her!
In sixth grade, another one of my friends who later moved, also had a boyfriend. In sixth grade! What is that? Like, eleven??? But, basically, I remember how hard it was for her when they eventually broke up, and how traumatizing it probably felt, since like, they exchanged expensive gifts, and even their parents knew about their relationship. I don’t want my other friend to feel like that!
I discussed it with someone else, and they said it was going to be fine, because they are just in middle school, and it won’t leave much of an impact. I hope I make sense, and didn’t sound like a paranoid kid too obsessed with her friends, haha.
So? Should I do something about this? or is this whole thing not that big of a deal, and happens to a lot of people? Please tell me!
Edit: really sorry, this didn’t get through in the original text, but i have no problem with their relationship! i just want to know how to help her in the end, when she breaks up, I guess… i’m really sorry, i always sound all over the place and quickly change my mind etc. thank you for reading though!
The only thing I have an issue with is how young they both are. I feel that like sooner or later they would have to break up(it’s rare that you get married to the person you dated in middle school) and honestly, I’m scared for her!
In sixth grade, another one of my friends who later moved, also had a boyfriend. In sixth grade! What is that? Like, eleven??? But, basically, I remember how hard it was for her when they eventually broke up, and how traumatizing it probably felt, since like, they exchanged expensive gifts, and even their parents knew about their relationship. I don’t want my other friend to feel like that!
I discussed it with someone else, and they said it was going to be fine, because they are just in middle school, and it won’t leave much of an impact. I hope I make sense, and didn’t sound like a paranoid kid too obsessed with her friends, haha.
So? Should I do something about this? or is this whole thing not that big of a deal, and happens to a lot of people? Please tell me!
Edit: really sorry, this didn’t get through in the original text, but i have no problem with their relationship! i just want to know how to help her in the end, when she breaks up, I guess… i’m really sorry, i always sound all over the place and quickly change my mind etc. thank you for reading though!
Addy
The post was edited 1 time, last by princessaddy234: I wanted to add a note so that ppl will understand my reasoning more ^^ ().