I am 14, but I have developed a lot these last 2 years, and today I have wide bust and hip measurements, and a cup size of 32DD.
This makes me quite self-conscious a lot of the time, since I frequently see adult men of all ages look at me a lot.
I feel like they should realise that I am probably in my early teens, since I am only 4'9 in height and can even get mistaken for a pre-teen if people only see my face (like if I sit down at a table, for example, or if I look across a counter), but they don't seem to really care about that, and gawk at me anyway.
I hesitate to wear anything that might draw extra attention in some way, such as any form of low-cut shirts or tight clothes, and I am also careful with exposing my legs in any way.
Do you know how I should handle this situation?
This makes me feel like an object a lot of the time.
It is also sometimes unsettling because the men who look at me are almost always much taller and bigger than me, so I always feel that I wouldn't be able to defend myself if they tried something.
This makes me quite self-conscious a lot of the time, since I frequently see adult men of all ages look at me a lot.
I feel like they should realise that I am probably in my early teens, since I am only 4'9 in height and can even get mistaken for a pre-teen if people only see my face (like if I sit down at a table, for example, or if I look across a counter), but they don't seem to really care about that, and gawk at me anyway.
I hesitate to wear anything that might draw extra attention in some way, such as any form of low-cut shirts or tight clothes, and I am also careful with exposing my legs in any way.
Do you know how I should handle this situation?
This makes me feel like an object a lot of the time.
It is also sometimes unsettling because the men who look at me are almost always much taller and bigger than me, so I always feel that I wouldn't be able to defend myself if they tried something.