Hi all I think I might be gay/lgbt even though I have never liked or had a crush on a guy in real life, only ever girls. But I still have 2 times looked at gay porn and I think I liked it so should I just accept now I am gay, or wait until I do get a real life crush first?
When is it confirmed you are lgbt?
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if you've never had a romantic feeling/crush on anyone it's a little hard to say. Your still young so have plenty of time to get those feelings/emotions.
And in reality does it matter if your gay, bi or straight. Just be yourself and open to the options when you're ready for relationships
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"If you try to follow fashion you'll always be chasing, and probably never catch it. If you be yourself and make your own style, fashion might just bump into you one day." -
That's probably true thank you because I am getting ahead of myself lol I have never even been on a date with anyone, it is probably too early to tell for sure.
BJade wrote:
And in reality does it matter if your gay, bi or straight. Just be yourself and open to the options when you're ready for relationships
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At 13 and going through puberty just about anything sexual is going to excite you.
Don't rush to try and determine your sexuality, you'll figure it out. Enjoy your feelings for now -
A little bit jokingly: Liking gay porn doesn't mean much. You're 13 and probably the wind could get you excited. And there are people who like both boys and girls:
On a more serious note: No need to label yourself. If you think you're gay, great, but if you dunno, equally fine. Personally, I know that I'm not straight. I had crushes on various people, boys and girls, but am dating a boy now. Doesn't make me gay, I don't think. I may be, but I don't really know or care and just tell people that I'm not straight. -
Don't stress tooooo much. At your age most things are confusing enough. I remember life at 13. Oh the pressures!!!! Just keep living life and being yourself, not what others think you should be. It's not just one day you wake up and got stuff figured out. It's something you grow into over time.
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there's no reason to label yourself. Just do what feels right and be happy.
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there's no need to rush into labeling yourself as anything. you watched some gay porn and THINKED you liked it...? That doesn't really sound like a serious gay lean to me. Just live your life and you'll figure things out along the way.
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Gosh, as everyone pointed out, you are only 13. You are also brand new to Teen Hut. Don't rush to put a label on yourself.
measles wrote:
Hi all I think I might be gay/lgbt even though I have never liked or had a crush on a guy in real life, only ever girls. But I still have 2 times looked at gay porn and I think I liked it so should I just accept now I am gay, or wait until I do get a real life crush first?
And, welcome to Teen Hut. I have learned a lot belonging to this forum. I hope you do too. -
It is not a black or white answer. For me, I was always attracted to other boys and didn't have interest in girls at all. Once I started experimenting sexually with boys, it was confirmed to me. I've had a boyfriend now for over a year.
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I started gettin crushes on boys when i was 11, then they just got more intense and by the time i was 13 i knew it wasnt just crushes, then when i turned 14, it was <okay im gay i get it, but its diff for everybody i guess
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Similar, just me a little earlier and I m bi.
corey_stratton wrote:
I started gettin crushes on boys when i was 11, then they just got more intense and by the time i was 13 i knew it wasnt just crushes, then when i turned 14, it was <okay im gay i get it, but its diff for everybody i guess
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I think it's on the 25 August, you can either get the results as an email or pick them up at school.
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if only life were that easy!!!
joannainthemiddle wrote:
I think it's on the 25 August, you can either get the results as an email or pick them up at school.
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measles wrote:
Hi all I think I might be gay/lgbt even though I have never liked or had a crush on a guy in real life, only ever girls. But I still have 2 times looked at gay porn and I think I liked it so should I just accept now I am gay, or wait until I do get a real life crush first?
It's not wrong with being gay, if you're like manly stuff like war guns, fast planes fast it's not wrong with being gay
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Iceman and his crew are gay...
Gay-paul wrote:
It's not wrong with being gay, if you're like manly stuff like war guns, fast planes fast it's not wrong with being gay
Dont be afraid to come talk to me, I dont bite...
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