I was with my ex for most of the summer then we broke up. I really liked it when we were together but this week I saw him kissing another girl. I didn't say anything it just made me feel sad. I don't know whether to tell him it makes me feel sad or I guess I should accept it.
My feelings for my ex
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That’s really hard, Jo, but I think you just have to try accept it
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It stings to see an ex with someone else, especially if you still feel something for him. However, although I know it's easier said than done, it's best not to say anything and try to move on.Keyboard not found. Press F1 for help.
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yeah I guess so. It's not like he's cheating on me. But it made me feel weird seeing it.
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HannahW wrote:
That’s really hard, Jo, but I think you just have to try accept it
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yes I guess it's what happens only I have never had this happen to me before.
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The shock of seeing something like that can definitely cause a reaction. I'm sure you miss the good times, and that's what probably makes it sad. You're not together anymore, and unless you want to be (and have difficult conversations) then yeah, it's probably best to not say anything
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What you're feeling is very normal. I think everyone who has broken up with someone feels that way at times. That he's with someone else and you're not makes it especially painful. I don't know which of you broke it off, but if it was you, keep in mind the reasons you ended it.
You should ask yourself what you would expect to get out of telling him that seeing him kiss another girl makes you sad. It's better that you share those feelings with others, like us, or close friends. Everyone can relate to it, if they've been in a relationship which has ended.
It's cliche' but true, it does get better with time. And those feelings will all but disappear when you start your next relationship. But they'll peter out even without a new guy in your life. -
awwwww Joanna. Totally normal feelings for anyone! Yea looks like he's moved on and someday you will too, but yea doesn't make it any easier in the now.
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Thank you all for listening to me!
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Are you still friends with your ex?
If not it’s something you just have to deal with and eventually get over.
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