Is it awkward telling your bff that you have masturbated while like thinking about her?
Telling bff something she might freak out about
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It depends on your friend, you know your friend.
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I would find it awkward if one of my friends told me this randomly. What exactly are you hoping to accomplish by telling her this? If you like her, why not try something less awkward like mentioning your attraction to her and/or asking her on a date?My (#12) stats:
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definitely. Its not a compliment. If you try to go for a compliment or tell her that you have feelings for her, don't start that way. Or you will loose a friend forever.
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maybe casually bring up the subject of fantasizing and/or masturbation....and try to judge from there how she might feel about talking about it, or if she herself mentions anything specific about people. I probably wouldn't be so forward with that (telling her that you think about her when you masturbate) if she's a friend, because yeah....you could definitely weird her out and potentially make the friendship awkward. Maybe just see if you could lightly flirt with her or bring up the subject in a very broad sense
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Doesn't sound like a good idea to me.
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If she's the same bff who dry humped you the other day, then I don't see a problem. If not, better keep it to yourself.Keyboard not found. Press F1 for help.
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Yup its awkward. I'm not an expert on girls by any stretch but if a boy told me that, I'd be turned off almost immediately. Now if you have a developed relationship with her, then sure you could share that information with her.
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Yes it's awkward. Seeing that most of us masturbate between 1-20+ times per week, it makes sense that we switch up what and who we fantasize about while masturbating. Most of us probably have chosen some weird friends and taboo people to fantasize about. Your bff may even think about you. But it's best to keep those things secret.
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Most of us? Really? I don't masturbate on my bff.
Gabraham247 wrote:
Yes it's awkward. Seeing that most of us masturbate between 1-20+ times per week, it makes sense that we switch up what and who we fantasize about while masturbating. Most of us probably have chosen some weird friends and taboo people to fantasize about. Your bff may even think about you. But it's best to keep those things secret.
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Well ... that's why we keep it to ourselves! Or should ... So as to not offend or upset someone. I'm with Gabraham on this one.
jessiiam wrote:
Most of us? Really? I don't masturbate on my bff.Gabraham247 wrote:
Yes it's awkward. Seeing that most of us masturbate between 1-20+ times per week, it makes sense that we switch up what and who we fantasize about while masturbating. Most of us probably have chosen some weird friends and taboo people to fantasize about. Your bff may even think about you. But it's best to keep those things secret.
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I didn't say most of us masturbate on our bff. I said most of us probably have chosen some weird and taboo people to fantasize about. That may or may not include people's bff.
jessiiam wrote:
Most of us? Really? I don't masturbate on my bff.Gabraham247 wrote:
Most of us probably have chosen some weird friends and taboo people to fantasize about.
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yes it would
you shouldnt do it, if you have feelings romantic or sexual they are easier ways to express those feelings. -
It's probably best to keep something like that to yourself. It's not worth losing a good friend over.
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I completely agree with this. Guys, at least, like to have some variety in their fantasy and don't stick to people or situations where something would actually happen and, when the fantasy remains private, it doesn't do anyone any harm.
Gabraham247 wrote:
Yes it's awkward. Seeing that most of us masturbate between 1-20+ times per week, it makes sense that we switch up what and who we fantasize about while masturbating. Most of us probably have chosen some weird friends and taboo people to fantasize about. Your bff may even think about you. But it's best to keep those things secret.
I am sure this topic has been discussed before, though, so if not on here then some other forum. What I took away from that is that girls don't generally appreciate being told that some random bloke that they don't fancy masturbates thinking of them and instead find it very creepy. You may argue that it is extremely naive to suppose that attraction is always reciprocal, i.e. that only people you fancy will fancy you back and therefore be aroused by you, but sometimes people prefer to not to think about certain things. -
Yeah, keep it to yourself. I have a friend how told me I was his masturbation fantasy. Guess he thought I'd be flattered, but I really wasn't. Didn't say anything to him tho
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I would keep it to yourself it’s not really a compliment and she might not want to be friends anymore if you tell her
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