The other day I went to a public pool with a couple of my friends and when changing I couldn't stop myself from looking and really wanted to touch them. I've never done anything with a guy before. How do you know if you're bi or just curious?
Bi or Curious
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that's not really entirely a question that other people can answer for you.
How do you feel when you are around girls? How do you feel when you are around guys? What about when you think about them? If thinking about boys sexually turns you on, yes, you could be bisexual. But it also cvould just be pure curiosity. -
It’s natural to be curious, but maybe? Take your time with your feelings
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ive been curious in the boys locker room at school before and have thought about touching. Though ill never do it cus i am way to shyI am very friendly, very curious, Just want to chill out most of time
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however it works out for everyone here, i hope everybody will be safe and happy.
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yeah ya dont wanna get physical with anybody, its kinda creepy, but ya can look all ya want, maybe snap somebody on the butt with a towel, that happens alot in the locker room at school
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Knowing that you are gay or bisexual is a very personal thing that one must figure out on their own and it's something that takes time to figure out and come to terms with.
In my case, I knew I felt differently about my friends who are boys than I felt about girls. Sure, I like girls as friends and am quite friendly with a lot of them, but I have no romantic or sexual feelings about girls at all. Only for boys. It's also kind of hard to really explain in writing. it's just a feeling you have and when you know, you'll know. Again, it's only something you can answer and no one else really can do that for you.
Best advice is to not rush to conclusions and be yourself. Eventually you'll sort it all out. -
You already got good advice. But if it only happens when you see naked friends in the locker room then my guess is it's just hormones and curiosity. If you're seeing random males at the mall and thinking they're cute and you want to get to know them and kiss them then I'd say it's definitely more, like you could possibly be bi. My guess is you're just curious if it's not happening a lot and in multiple ways.
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If that was your first time nude with your friends its natural to be curious.
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if you are sexually attracted to boys in the same way you are to girls youre bi, if not might just be some curiosity or horniness
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NoahWilson66 wrote:
Thanks for the advice everyone.
Maybe follow up questions, how did you know you were only curious or really bi?
Would experimenting with a guy help?
These are the most difficult questions without us knowing anything about your circumstances
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I don't think you can describe everything in such a way that we can give reliable advice. I think you should try it, you will find the solution sooner than if you just think about it.
NoahWilson66 wrote:
What more would you need?
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Try as in experiment with a guy?
sbpepe wrote:
I don't think you can describe everything in such a way that we can give reliable advice. I think you should try it, you will find the solution sooner than if you just think about it.NoahWilson66 wrote:
What more would you need?
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Yes, that's a much better answer than just thinking about it.
NoahWilson66 wrote:
Try as in experiment with a guy?sbpepe wrote:
I don't think you can describe everything in such a way that we can give reliable advice. I think you should try it, you will find the solution sooner than if you just think about it.NoahWilson66 wrote:
What more would you need?
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Thanks
sbpepe wrote:
Yes, that's a much better answer than just thinking about it.NoahWilson66 wrote:
Try as in experiment with a guy?sbpepe wrote:
I don't think you can describe everything in such a way that we can give reliable advice. I think you should try it, you will find the solution sooner than if you just think about it.NoahWilson66 wrote:
What more would you need?
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It's ok to be curious in the boys locker room. Discretely checking out the equipment is equally fine. But touching is a definite no no.
fidgetowen wrote:
ive been curious in the boys locker room at school before and have thought about touching. Though ill never do it cus i am way to shy
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If you're that open to experimenting with a guy, I think u probably are bi. But sure, try it and see. Just be safe of course.
NoahWilson66 wrote:
Thanks for the advice everyone.
Maybe follow up questions, how did you know you were only curious or really bi?
Would experimenting with a guy help?
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I don't think you can define it that way. Experimenting and having a relationship are two entirely different things. Being gay or bi isn't something you try out. It is something you are and something you discover and come to terms with and it is something that is deeply personal. It's not like trying on a sweater.
Gabraham247 wrote:
If you're that open to experimenting with a guy, I think u probably are bi. But sure, try it and see. Just be safe of course.NoahWilson66 wrote:
Thanks for the advice everyone.
Maybe follow up questions, how did you know you were only curious or really bi?
Would experimenting with a guy help?
At the end of the day, it is about who you are attracted to and who you covet. It's very difficult for any of us who are gay/bisexual to explain. It's that feeling you have when you see or meet a person of the same sex for the first time. It's the same feeling a straight person has when they see or meet a person of the opposite sex.
In my case, I knew well before puberty that I had "something" for boys. I thought about them in ways that I didn't think about girls. Girls were and are my friends and there is no sexual interest there what so ever. So to the OP, if you have an interest in a boy, like Gabraham said, give it a go and see what is what. No one here can answer these questions except you.
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