Parents and Puberty

Arlington Braselton · Sep 11th 2023, 1:25pm

hi I have been viewing site for a month and finally got the courage to ask for advice.

I am officially on restriction for being caught masturbating. But I can't help it cause my body is changing and weird things are going on and folks are prudes. What do I do if I can't speak to family about it.

BlackParadePixie · Sep 11th 2023, 3:20pm

why are you on restriction??

maseb · Sep 11th 2023, 4:54pm

Some families don't approve of their children masturbating for some reason. Its a normal biological function and IMO nothing to be ashamed of. Almost the entire world does it, or has done it.

Sounds like you can't discuss this with your parents, so maybe one of your friends? I doubt you'll be able to resist it, but try and be discrete when you masturbate, say during a shower, or at night in your room after they go to sleep.

Good luck

pahern0317 · Sep 12th 2023, 2:46am

I am sorry that your parents penalize you for engaging in a normal activity. It's unfortunate and as has been suggested you will have to do this in a more private manner. You haven't done anything wrong.

collin13 · Sep 12th 2023, 3:05am

The fellas covered it wisely for you. I'm sorry you are dealing with this as well. It is a normal activity that most of us participate in and it's a shame they don't realize that. You'll have to find privacy and go about your business that way. Sorry mate.

Arlington Braselton · Sep 12th 2023, 1:21pm

collin13 wrote:

The fellas covered it wisely for you. I'm sorry you are dealing with this as well. It is a normal activity that most of us participate in and it's a shame they don't realize that. You'll have to find privacy and go about your business that way. Sorry mate.

i had to do it in the shower this morning. They did not notice anything lucky. I only get my phone or laptop for a certain amount of time.

Robrob12 · Sep 12th 2023, 1:45pm

Arlington Braselton wrote:

collin13 wrote:

The fellas covered it wisely for you. I'm sorry you are dealing with this as well. It is a normal activity that most of us participate in and it's a shame they don't realize that. You'll have to find privacy and go about your business that way. Sorry mate.

i had to do it in the shower this morning. They did not notice anything lucky. I only get my phone or laptop for a certain amount of time.

do they come in and check on you while you are showerimg, or do u get load when u orgasm?

pahern0317 · Sep 12th 2023, 7:10pm

Lock the bathroom door while you are using it.

Dracaufeu · Sep 16th 2023, 11:15am

pahern0317 wrote:

Lock the bathroom door while you are using it.

And his parents are gonna ask : why are you locking the door, what are you doing in there ?

Dracaufeu · Sep 16th 2023, 11:17am

Arlington Braselton wrote:

i had to do it in the shower this morning. They did not notice anything lucky. I only get my phone or laptop for a certain amount of time.

Why take risk in the morning ? Do it at night when every one is sleeping

Arlington Braselton · Oct 12th 2023, 1:43pm

Dracaufeu wrote:

pahern0317 wrote:

Lock the bathroom door while you are using it.

And his parents are gonna ask : why are you locking the door, what are you doing in there ?

your correct. But that's one of the times to myself and when changing.

Javier23 · Oct 26th 2023, 4:43pm

As an Asian, we aren’t very open about this topic as a family as well. My advise would be to masturbate when you’re showering or when they aren’t home to play safe.

gagefromtx · Oct 27th 2023, 9:44pm

I mean its not a normal topic of conversation at the dinner table. I have two older brother and we are open about masturbation. My parents gave all three of us the birds and the bees talk when we were younger and that's what it was. Occasionally, my dad will ask if I need condoms and I always tell him no because I get those from my older brothers. My mom bought all three of us KY jelly and put in our Christmas stockings last year. I think it was a joke, but I know I used mine.

maseb · Oct 28th 2023, 3:08pm

gagefromtx wrote:

I mean its not a normal topic of conversation at the dinner table. I have two older brother and we are open about masturbation. My parents gave all three of us the birds and the bees talk when we were younger and that's what it was. Occasionally, my dad will ask if I need condoms and I always tell him no because I get those from my older brothers. My mom bought all three of us KY jelly and put in our Christmas stockings last year. I think it was a joke, but I know I used mine.

That's funny, and pretty cool. Our mom never got us lube but makes sure our room is well stocked with tissues. Dad gave us our first condoms when we were younger

Calli · Oct 30th 2023, 11:01pm

devout christian parents were very dificult but im very sneaky

Parents and Puberty

Parents and Puberty

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