Obviously only applies if youre straight/bi/pan, but like every time I do it with a girl, afterwards I get super paranoid that shes gonna get pregnant. But Ive used condoms every time, and I made sure I knew how to use them right, and nothing bad happened like the condom tearing or anything. Also I usually dont even cum when Im inside her. But I still get realllllly worried about it. Does that happen to anybody else and how to I not be so worried?
Does anyone else get super paranoid about pregnancy even tho you use protection and nothing went wrong?
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Well for what its worth, and I say this as a gay boy who has never had sex with a girl, all you can do is use appropriate protection as there is always an inherent risk in getting a girl pregnant if you have sex. The only way to not be so worried is to not have intercourse. Probably not the answer you want to hear, but unfortunately it's the only answer with 100 percent certainty.
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I've had sex with girls, and while I wouldn't say I'm paranoid about the chances of her getting pregnant, I would say that in the back of my mind there's a bit of a worry that something might go wrong and she could wind up pregnant anyway, despite the fact that we do take some precautions. That's just the chance you take when you put your dick into a girl's pussy. Like Collin said, the only 100% safe sex is no sex.
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i nor had sex yet. but any method is not 100 foolproof. there is always a small chance
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I think if you worry about ut EVERY time...you're over worrying about it.
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nope
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Nah. Sure, there's a marginal chance of getting pregnant despite using condoms and/or pills, but it's not something to get paranoid. It's like getting paranoid being outside, as there's a marginal chance that you'll get a falling piano on your head.Keyboard not found. Press F1 for help.
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It's good that you're worried
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It’s you’re using protection and using it right then there shouldn’t be a problem, especially if you don’t even cum insideI’m not clumsy its just the floor hates me, the tables and chairs are bullies and the wall gets in the way
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Condoms are carefully tested and controlled in the laboratory. If you wear them correctly and for safety, when finished, check that it is not broken. You can rest assured.
It's right that you are worried in order to always pay maximum attention and use a condom even when you don't cum inside her -
It also happened to me the first times I had sex with a girl, but not during the act itself, I was worried after we finished, even if we did it in a safe way. Then time after time I was more relaxed and stopped to be paranoid after sex. Like Joe said, condoms are tested and controlled, if you check it and it's ok you can rest assured, it's ok to pay attention, but you also have to enjoy sex
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No I don’t get worry about it I’m on the pill and use condoms at the time time
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When I have my first time I'll probably worry about that a lot... even if we're super safe. Maybe it goes away when it's more of a normal thing?
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I would say that it’s normal for a guy who has sex with a girl to keep in the back of their mind the possibility of pregnancy (since it is always possible), but I don’t think it needs to rise to that level of anxiety if you are taking proper precautions. It might be normal to be a little more worried about it if you’re new to sex (I remember thinking about it more when I was 18 or so, not so much now). I’d say: don’t get over-confident and think it could never happen, but don’t stress over something very unlikely to happen if you are doing everything right to prevent it.
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Nah I don't have that worry
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Both the boy and the girl should practice protection. It is still not 100% safe but surely lowers the odds.
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I guess yes, I would be a worried that we haven’t used it right or that it might break
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Ok, yea we're really careful and yea I usually dont cum when Im inside (its happened once by accident but thats why I wear a condom). Idk ig I just overthink things
BlackParadePixie wrote:
I think if you worry about ut EVERY time...you're over worrying about it.
Especially if you don't even cum when you're inside...
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Yea makes sense. I am kinda new to sex with a girl (we've done it 3 times now) so thats probably why. Im always excited beforehand and do have it in the back of my mind but after I get a lot more worried about it, but I think its getting better
HeyCameron wrote:
I would say that it’s normal for a guy who has sex with a girl to keep in the back of their mind the possibility of pregnancy (since it is always possible), but I don’t think it needs to rise to that level of anxiety if you are taking proper precautions. It might be normal to be a little more worried about it if you’re new to sex (I remember thinking about it more when I was 18 or so, not so much now). I’d say: don’t get over-confident and think it could never happen, but don’t stress over something very unlikely to happen if you are doing everything right to prevent it.
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Gay?
corey_stratton wrote:
Nah I don't have that worry
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