Cumming together during sex

luma-tomato · Feb 25th 2024, 10:13am

Hi together,

did you ever reached an orgasm together with your partner during sex?
If yes, how was it for you?
Is the feeling different regarding to orgasm „alone“ during sex?
Do you do something to make it more likely to have an orgasme together?
How often do you have an orgasm at the same time during sex?

The questions are not only for vaginal sex. If you are gay and have anal sex or just masturbate together you can answer them too!

Chris 17 · Feb 25th 2024, 12:08pm

That's one hell of a lot of questions you have for us

luma-tomato · Feb 25th 2024, 1:23pm

Chris 17 wrote:

That's one hell of a lot of questions you have for us

So Sorry, but I somehow had all the questions on my mind
And I cant answer any of this questions as I did not had sex until now

collin13 · Feb 25th 2024, 1:26pm

lol ... isn't that the goal and whole point of intercourse? To orgasm at the same time? If achievable, it's magical and so intense. Its all about knowing your mate and holding off to time your water feature.

maseb · Feb 25th 2024, 1:40pm

collin13 wrote:

lol ... isn't that the goal and whole point of intercourse? To orgasm at the same time? If achievable, it's magical and so intense. Its all about knowing your mate and holding off to time your water feature.

Perfect response

BlackParadePixie · Feb 25th 2024, 6:53pm

collin13 wrote:

isn't that the goal and whole point of intercourse? To orgasm at the same time?

no...it's not as easy as you think.
Orgasm? Yes.
At the same time? Yes it's very special...but not always so easy to do.

collin13 · Feb 25th 2024, 9:31pm

BlackParadePixie wrote:

collin13 wrote:

isn't that the goal and whole point of intercourse? To orgasm at the same time?

no...it's not as easy as you think.Orgasm? Yes.
At the same time? Yes it's very special...but not always so easy to do.

100 percent agree. But it is the goal and the whole point! The measure is all in the pleasure (for both parties).

luma-tomato · Feb 25th 2024, 9:53pm

collin13 wrote:

BlackParadePixie wrote:

collin13 wrote:

isn't that the goal and whole point of intercourse? To orgasm at the same time?

no...it's not as easy as you think.Orgasm? Yes.At the same time? Yes it's very special...but not always so easy to do.

100 percent agree. But it is the goal and the whole point! The measure is all in the pleasure (for both parties).

But do you do something to make it more likely that you cum together? Or can you do something to make it more likely that it happens?

collin13 · Feb 25th 2024, 10:04pm

luma-tomato wrote:

collin13 wrote:

BlackParadePixie wrote:

collin13 wrote:

isn't that the goal and whole point of intercourse? To orgasm at the same time?

no...it's not as easy as you think.Orgasm? Yes.At the same time? Yes it's very special...but not always so easy to do.

100 percent agree. But it is the goal and the whole point! The measure is all in the pleasure (for both parties).

But do you do something to make it more likely that you cum together? Or can you do something to make it more likely that it happens?

Practice? That's about all I would think. I'm not an expert by any means! I think as Fiona pointed out above, it isn't easy to achieve.

BlackParadePixie · Feb 25th 2024, 10:50pm

collin13 wrote:

BlackParadePixie wrote:

collin13 wrote:

isn't that the goal and whole point of intercourse? To orgasm at the same time?

no...it's not as easy as you think.Orgasm? Yes.At the same time? Yes it's very special...but not always so easy to do.

100 percent agree. But it is the goal and the whole point! The measure is all in the pleasure (for both parties).

I guess I just don't see it as a goal...or THE goal of sex. I feel like if I set out to come simultaneously with my partner every time...I'd be disappointed about 95% of the time. I just see it something that happens every once in a while, but it's really special and hot when it does.

BJade · Feb 25th 2024, 11:13pm

isn't the goal for the boy to cum

If he doesn't make you orgasm at some point, he's :thumbdown:

and should be dumped :lol:

It's more a hope to cum at the same time, and probably actively trying to would make it less enjoyable, and less likely

maseb · Feb 28th 2024, 2:46pm

luma-tomato wrote:

collin13 wrote:

BlackParadePixie wrote:

collin13 wrote:

isn't that the goal and whole point of intercourse? To orgasm at the same time?

no...it's not as easy as you think.Orgasm? Yes.At the same time? Yes it's very special...but not always so easy to do.

100 percent agree. But it is the goal and the whole point! The measure is all in the pleasure (for both parties).

But do you do something to make it more likely that you cum together? Or can you do something to make it more likely that it happens?

Talk to each other. If I'm getting close I let him know so he can slow down, and he lets me know how close he is, so if need be I can stimulate him more. Shooting at the same time is the best

HeyCameron · Feb 28th 2024, 4:58pm

maseb wrote:

Talk to each other. If I'm getting close I let him know so he can slow down, and he lets me know how close he is, so if need be I can stimulate him more. Shooting at the same time is the best

This is true. You can communicate with your partner to increase the likelihood of it happening (and probably a bit easier to achieve, admittedly, with two guys than with a guy and a girl), but I also agree that it is not the goal of sex, and preoccupying yourself with timing and synchrony is only going to lead to frustration. The goal of sex is to enjoy it with your partner (whatever that may mean for you--and it doesn't necessarily mean simultaneous orgasm).

AshleighB · Feb 28th 2024, 6:08pm

It’s not important to cum together, obviously it’s nice but doesn’t always happen both boys and girls have different needs and can cum at different times

ImAidesP · Feb 28th 2024, 11:02pm

I mean, its happened but its not like we try to make it happen. Ig its nice but its fine if we dont do it at the same time imo

JustJarrod · Mar 10th 2024, 2:11pm

it happen only once and that's because he was talking so dirty to me and it turned me on.

D. Falcon_11 · Mar 12th 2024, 3:11pm

IMHO, Who Cares! It's the act of being together in a loving relationship having orgasms at the same time are irrelevant.

timsmith123 · Mar 12th 2024, 11:46pm

JustJarrod wrote:

it happen only once and that's because he was talking so dirty to me and it turned me on.

how old were u both?

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