- I'm 15 and I just bought a one peice bathingsuit. My fam is hosting like a pool party type thing in a couple weeks and I'm dreading it to the extreme. I bought it because I wanted to try something new. I've literally only worn swim shorts with a long swim shirt before. When I tried the onepeice on it was probably the most insecure I've ever felt, esspecially since I have stretch marks for NO REASON on my hips. I'm not overweight I'm just freaking out because I'll be in front of a lot of people I know and my mom always tells me that I have to watch what I eat and stuff that makes me feel really bad about myself. I just want some advice on how to not be insecure ig? Idk
Being insecure?
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the stretch marks are most likely because you're body is growing...taller. you don't only get them from being fat.
Just have confidence in yourself and believe that you're beautiful -
Maybe try wearing it as much as you can between now and then and see how you feel?
You can still wear shorts over a one piece if you’re not comfortable or even a shirt / rashie -
Don’t feel insecure, nobody will really care how you look and I’m sure you look just fine.
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I too felt uncomfortable in a swimsuit, especially when we went to the pool with my class. And I wasn't the only one, so it was like supporting each other. Beauty stereotypes make us feel self-conscious. So when you're a teenager, you can be very sensitive to that and become complexed because you tell yourself you're not tall enough, not thin enough, not pretty enough compared to the others. When you think about it, it's ridiculous because we are who we are. Just because you're not tall or a size s doesn't mean you're ugly, unattractive or anything else. Not looking like everyone else is what makes you unique. You should try to say to yourself, I am the way I am, and if you don't like it, go to hell. Listen to Christina Aguilera's song Beautiful and Pink Stupid Girls. It makes you think. You have to accept yourself as you are and try to love yourself. If you really don't feel comfortable putting on a bathing suit or dressing in a way you don't feel comfortable with, why force yourself to wear something you don't want to wear. Do as you please.
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i'm not sure I understand... insecure about what ? Wearing a swimsuit to go in a pool ? It sounds like the normal thing to do
It sure better than going in fully dressed or naked...
Display Spoiler well maybe some boys would like to see you going in naked -
That’s not very considerate Emory
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acaibowl wrote:
That’s not very considerate Emory
The end was a joke lol
But honestly I dont understand the problem ? -
Emory wrote:
acaibowl wrote:
That’s not very considerate Emory
But honestly I dont understand the problem ?
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some god advice a;ready. I think u just been thrown by what ur mum has said. try a few things, see what outfit u like. u will be with family. no-one will bother
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