So my best friend really likes this guy and they recently hooked up while they were drunk.she let it slip out to him that she liked him and than he admitted it too. Than they went a week without talking and before he left on his trip to spain she decided to bring it up because this time their both sober and asked him if he would be interested in a relationship and he said although he feels the same he doesn't want one since he's going to spain(which is understandable not want to be attached) but on the trip one of my friends overheard him talking to his friend telling her he wanted nothing to do with my bestfriend and that the hookup ment nothing and he only felt sorry for her so he gave in. So now the question is should i mention this to my bestfriend or just leave it alone? A part of me doesn't want to get involved but than another part feels guilty from hiding it from her.
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You need to look at it in many ways
Your source could be wrong, not nesseracily lieing but got the wrong end of the stick or something
Also the boy could be saying it to look cool
You need to talk to your friend, and discuss the posabilities and also try talking to the boy.
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I don't think you should tell her... I don't think that it's necessary to. Especially if he acts different around a certain group of people (which isn't right but...) I just wouldn't say anything to her..i don't sleep
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Yea i'd just keep quiet. It's very likely he said what he said to look cool anyway, lots of guys do it.[CENTER]"I don't belong here, we gotta move on dear escape from this afterlife[/CENTER]
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You should definitely tell your firend about this. She deserves to know the truth about that scumbag. What a rotten thing for him to say.
If she doesn't believe you she'll find out on her own sooner or later.
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She'll probably get mad at you then for not telling her soon (if you tell her later/when she brings it up)i don't sleep
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Dont tell, if he said this to another guy it means absolutely nothing. And if he didn't mean it then you have just wrecked things between them.
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guys are stupid. Hes kind of leading her on. And she really deserves to know how he really feels. Even if he did only say it to seem cool or whatever, she deserves to know exactly what hes saying about her. If i was her, i'd not only feel led on and used, but betrayed by my best friend, for not telling me from the beginning.
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I don't have secrets from my friends. She finding out is OK, but if she finds out you knew...
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It woulda came out anyway. Unfortunately for you, it came out badly. So, what happened afterward? Did she become cantankerous toward you?[CENTER][SIZE=4]Thou art I and I am thou. From the sea of thy soul, I cometh. I am Orpheus, master of strings.
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tell her you wanted to tell her, but you didnt know how and you didnt want to hurt her. then tell her that she really needs to talk to this guy in private and see what the fuck is going on.
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Good idea.[CENTER][SIZE=4]Thou art I and I am thou. From the sea of thy soul, I cometh. I am Orpheus, master of strings.
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all the girls are saying tell, and the guys don't. As GUYS we understand guys, there is a very good chance he was bragging and just saying it, trust me, its kinda part of being macho (which most men instinctively feel the need to do). By telling her you could make the situation worse and hurt your friend alot.[CENTER]"I don't belong here, we gotta move on dear escape from this afterlife[/CENTER]
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She knows Jay[CENTER][SIZE=4]Thou art I and I am thou. From the sea of thy soul, I cometh. I am Orpheus, master of strings.
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