I realize this is just a really stupid thing to need help with, but it really is a big deal.
A bit of background info... I have a GED, and plan to go to a community college in the spring, I live with my mom, she and I disagree on pretty much everything.
She just had a baby with this guy she met a year and a half ago, and he moved in with us (right after my x-step dad moved out.) And she wants me to move out.
Ok, so...
I have this job, and my boss wants to give me a raise (I deserve it very much, and I'm supossed to get a raise at 90 days which I'm about to hit.)
But I want to quit, and start working at the same establishment, but within walking distance of my boyfriends house so I can see him more than I do now (about 1 day every week.) the drive to his house takes about 20 mins on the highway.
He and I have been together for 5 months, and his parents want me to move in with them. (he is 19, im 17.) He had a car that was left by his decieced grandfather, but he got hit by some guy who ran a red light going 60 about a month ago.
Back to the point:
Where I work now, I'm getting 6.85, but the raise will be to 7.50 in Aug.
This other place will start me out at 7.25, then a raise at 90 days (I don't know how much it will be, but we'll see.)
I dont want to leave this place because I'll feel bad for leaving my friend that works there to train new people when he barely knows what he is doing as it is... And some other stupid kid quit yesterday for no reason.
on the other hand, I really miss my boyfriend, and I wish I could see him more (this is really tearing us apart.)
And I want to get out of my moms house. I have a lot of resentment for her, and all we do is argue.
She is very irresponsible she gets a different utility shut off every month (this month it is gas, so no hot showers.)
She also has a 3 month old baby who does nothing but scream and cry.
Should I move in with my boyfriend and his parents and get the new job, or should I be here for my mother who does nothing for me?
A bit of background info... I have a GED, and plan to go to a community college in the spring, I live with my mom, she and I disagree on pretty much everything.
She just had a baby with this guy she met a year and a half ago, and he moved in with us (right after my x-step dad moved out.) And she wants me to move out.
Ok, so...
I have this job, and my boss wants to give me a raise (I deserve it very much, and I'm supossed to get a raise at 90 days which I'm about to hit.)
But I want to quit, and start working at the same establishment, but within walking distance of my boyfriends house so I can see him more than I do now (about 1 day every week.) the drive to his house takes about 20 mins on the highway.
He and I have been together for 5 months, and his parents want me to move in with them. (he is 19, im 17.) He had a car that was left by his decieced grandfather, but he got hit by some guy who ran a red light going 60 about a month ago.
Back to the point:
Where I work now, I'm getting 6.85, but the raise will be to 7.50 in Aug.
This other place will start me out at 7.25, then a raise at 90 days (I don't know how much it will be, but we'll see.)
I dont want to leave this place because I'll feel bad for leaving my friend that works there to train new people when he barely knows what he is doing as it is... And some other stupid kid quit yesterday for no reason.
on the other hand, I really miss my boyfriend, and I wish I could see him more (this is really tearing us apart.)
And I want to get out of my moms house. I have a lot of resentment for her, and all we do is argue.
She is very irresponsible she gets a different utility shut off every month (this month it is gas, so no hot showers.)
She also has a 3 month old baby who does nothing but scream and cry.
Should I move in with my boyfriend and his parents and get the new job, or should I be here for my mother who does nothing for me?