hey im tara from tennessee and i live with my dad .my mom lives in pennsylvania and i want to live with her..cause my dad is abusive ..i dont wanna live at dads no more he has become a monster towards me .:( he treats my sister really good but me since i look like mom he treats me bad..he cusses me and hits me..what can i do?? next month i go to moms for the summer and i dont wann go back to dads.btw is there a tn law that states that whjen ur 14 you can choose on who u wanna live with??im 14..[please someone gimme sum advice .i want outa dads
i need someones advice
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i dunno if im posting in the right area
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i fink u shud tell your mum. does she know what he does and how he acts towards you? he has no right to hit u just coz u remind him of ur mum.
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the well you are telling the answer by yourself, you should tell your mom about it and then you should pick to live with your mom[FONT="Arial Narrow"][SIZE="2"][RIGHT]everyone laughs at me like if i give a fuck what they think...
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i dun told mom and mom has a lawyer to get me but i cant wait..every night my dad does this cussing and hitin and tellin me he cant wait til im gone this summer to moms.why me?? :confused: i hate this place i want my mom so bad.
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so ur dad has legal custerdy of u?
coz if he dont i fink u can jus move
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yes he has custody of me .he took us away from my mom when i was 4 cause my mom had no home:( i wanted to be with mom the whole time but he wouldnt let me and he once told me mom was dead.i didnt believe him.he kept my mom from seeing us for yrs..every time she tryed he left with us to keep her from seein us and mom came to school one day that was awesome i ran and hugged her .was the happiest day of my life.dad stopped that..my mom isnt bad she tryed for yrs to get custody and to see me and my sister but my retarded dad stopped her.this summer im goin to moms and i dont wanna come back.my moms my life
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well i fink if u get evidence of wot he is doing fings will move faster and ur mum cud prob get custody of u quicker -
ill try to get evidence but when he treats me bad i cant call mom or noone.my dad hides my cell phne and unplugs all the phones in the house to keep me from tellin anyone.i dunno what to do im just so in a bad situation.my mom is all thats keeping me goin. and hey you babyjos you seem very nice and i thank you for talking to me .helps to talk a little now and then..
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no problem if u wana tlk jus pm me or add me on msn
do u av marks or anyfing where he hits u coz if u do u shud take pics
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well duhhhhhh tell ur mom
bleieve me u need to tell someone u cant just let that go
i mean thats kinda obviouse u need to tell someone tell a trusted adult or even so go into a police office close to u even a fire fighter place if u no where one is and tell someone bout what ur dad is doing he coul;d get in trouble but uhhhh. yaaa. tell someone.....tell a councler or a teacher at school.
tell someone -
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i dun told my mom and she is got a lawyer to help.
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yeah its a right decision. hope tou'll be happier when you're on your moms
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meggypoo wrote:
well duhhhhhh tell ur mom
bleieve me u need to tell someone u cant just let that go
i mean thats kinda obviouse u need to tell someone tell a trusted adult or even so go into a police office close to u even a fire fighter place if u no where one is and tell someone bout what ur dad is doing he coul;d get in trouble but uhhhh. yaaa. tell someone.....tell a councler or a teacher at school.
tell someone
Did you read her posts? She did tell her mom, but the situation is still slow to change. Saying "duuuuuhhh" in response to a post like that is very patronizing.And your very flesh shall be a great poem.
-Walt Whitman -
If your father has custody of you, your mom has to take him to court about it. She has to prove she has a place to stay and makes good enough money to support you. If you bring up the fact that he hits you, then you need to be strong and know that your mom might lose the case and you might end up in foster care or something of that matter. I'm not telling you this to be mean. I'm telling you so you have all sides of your options. Don't get into something then be too afriad to stand up for yourself.
It wont end up pretty.
So I hope this helps.
If not.
You can PM me to talk.
I'm sort of smart like this lol.
Be strong.
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Lynn -
i too once had an abusive father thats y my mom kicked him out of the house. what u need to do is that when he hits you and u bruise take a picture, everytime u get a new bruise take a picture. when u have a few, show them to a teacher you trust, they will call the cops and you will be removed from your fathers house. or you could send the pictures to your mom so that her lawyer can use it in court
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i think that when there's a case of abuse, things would speed up with the courts and all....
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First of all tell you'r mum about yuo'r dad...
I think shell know what to do
But if he treets you REALY bad you should let the police know!
If you'r dad is abusive the court will deside that you will live with you'r mother.
I understand how you feel... My dad is the same but my parents still live together... (not 4 long)
Punk 21 > She shouldnt take any more brouses! what if he hit's her too hard and hits her head on the corner of the table or something!?
Dont wayt any more!
Tell you'r mother and the police!
Good luck.
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