hi im new on this forum so plz treat me kindly!
anyway, yes, i am worried about my relationship with my boyfriend. im 14 and a freshman in high school, and so is he. we've been going out since march last year. we've always had a really good relationship; hes incredibly sensible and considerate and he always tries to make me happy. my parents dont approve of me having a boyfriend so hes been helping me keep our relationship secret (to adults, not our friends at school). because of this we hardly ever get to meet outside of school, but he always tells me he doesnt mind because he thinks its worth being with me, and he'll wait however long it takes. he even entered the high school my parents forced me to go to even though it meant leaving all of our friends behind. but lately, there has been a lot going on in my family, like my grandmother beening very sick with cancer, my family being very deep in debt, and my parents not getting along. so its not really a big stretch to say ive been a bit depressed. ive been pretty inattentive during school, depressed, and ive been spacing out a lot. my boyfriend has been great about it; hes been trying to cheer me up for the longest time, but i think its starting to get to him. he says he gets depressed when i am, and its really apparent in the both of us because we're usually very energetic and happy. however, lately, it seems like hes begun to lose intrest in me. we talk all the time, but its superficial, it sounds very fake and forced, even when we discuss the stupidest and ridiculous things (which we usually do). for the past few days, he has always been mentioning a girl in our school that he has a few classes with. i get extremely irritated when he talks about her and mentions her, but i always hide it and act normally. its probably my fault that he doesnt really want to talk to me so much because i sound so dead, but i just dont want to end it with him because i still care about him so much. if anyone has any thoughts on this, plz give me some help.
anyway, yes, i am worried about my relationship with my boyfriend. im 14 and a freshman in high school, and so is he. we've been going out since march last year. we've always had a really good relationship; hes incredibly sensible and considerate and he always tries to make me happy. my parents dont approve of me having a boyfriend so hes been helping me keep our relationship secret (to adults, not our friends at school). because of this we hardly ever get to meet outside of school, but he always tells me he doesnt mind because he thinks its worth being with me, and he'll wait however long it takes. he even entered the high school my parents forced me to go to even though it meant leaving all of our friends behind. but lately, there has been a lot going on in my family, like my grandmother beening very sick with cancer, my family being very deep in debt, and my parents not getting along. so its not really a big stretch to say ive been a bit depressed. ive been pretty inattentive during school, depressed, and ive been spacing out a lot. my boyfriend has been great about it; hes been trying to cheer me up for the longest time, but i think its starting to get to him. he says he gets depressed when i am, and its really apparent in the both of us because we're usually very energetic and happy. however, lately, it seems like hes begun to lose intrest in me. we talk all the time, but its superficial, it sounds very fake and forced, even when we discuss the stupidest and ridiculous things (which we usually do). for the past few days, he has always been mentioning a girl in our school that he has a few classes with. i get extremely irritated when he talks about her and mentions her, but i always hide it and act normally. its probably my fault that he doesnt really want to talk to me so much because i sound so dead, but i just dont want to end it with him because i still care about him so much. if anyone has any thoughts on this, plz give me some help.
