My mom won't let me handle anything on my own. I'm turning 17 soon, and I'm ranked 3rd in the nation for my age in my sport. However, my parents will give me no freedom at all. AND they have no experience whatsoever in anything athletic. They dictate everything I do at competitions (even though I hardly listen and do the thing I know I"m supposed to, cause what they tell me to do are pretty bad). Whenever I have any political problems dealing with my sport, they don't let me have a say in it at all even though the outcome could affect me for the rest of my athletic career and wouldn't affect them in the slightest. They always complain about the cost of going to out-of-town competitions even though they only have to pay for themselves (I'm paid for by my team), but they absolutely won't let me go alone. Why? No idea. Oh, they ALWAYS talk smack about me when I try to confront them about it, eg. things like 'you're so disrespectful of your parents' or 'youre so irresponsible and unthankful of what we've done' and stuff. And I do respect what they've done, but its not much to ask for just a bit of freedom, is it?
This stretches outside my sport as well, but it doesn't seem as bad because most of my social life (or whatever hasn't been controlled by them yet) happens during my athletic life.
What can I do to convince them I'm not a baby anymore? I'm losing my childhood and the great experience of traveling the nation while being responsible for yourself... the experience many of my teammates have had since they were 12 or younger.
Help...
This stretches outside my sport as well, but it doesn't seem as bad because most of my social life (or whatever hasn't been controlled by them yet) happens during my athletic life.
What can I do to convince them I'm not a baby anymore? I'm losing my childhood and the great experience of traveling the nation while being responsible for yourself... the experience many of my teammates have had since they were 12 or younger.
Help...