CAUTION:
I WROTE ALOT. :)
Well, of course by the title yu can probably tell its guy problems. :confused:. Wee yea - yur right. its so much stuff going on right now my head is spinning;
and i need advice very badly.
So heres the 411:
Me & this guy were dating from april up until august; and i dumped him because it was a new school year and i wanted to start off fresh. But of course my feelings were still there because i truly L O V E D this guy. So we agree to be friends but by early september we decide to be friends with benefits - which is always a tough situation. So we would go on dates; talk on the phone 24/7; & call each other baby - just like a couple. This lasted up until December which is where all of this stuff began.
Its just these 4 days out of 1 week where i was super busy :
not only was it THAT time of the month, i had school & after school biology extra credit classes, & winterguard tryouts, and i had 3 projects due that weekend, and a chorus rehearsal & a performance. :eek: yeahhh. so everytime he would call me i would always be busy. BUT i had told him what i was gonnah doing that week & how i was gonnah be busy. But i guess he didnt listen; because next thing i know he doesnt tell me anything until we get into a semi-fued over the phone. & he busts out with all of this well yuh werent there for me blah blah blah BS. & i was just telling him how busy i was. & i forgot how it came up but he said something about this girl named lisa and im like whos lisa ; & he was telling me she was a girl from our school and i asked why he hadnt told me about her before and he was like "I did but yuh dont listen" which was a LIE! so pretty much i ask him if his feelings were drifting for me and he said yea. I said if they were at a 10 what are they now? & he was like a 6. & of course im like WHAT why? & he was like because yuh werent there and because she was. :mad: grrr. so by now im fussing him out about how he let some chick get between us & hes like but i only love yuh...all that BS. & im telling him how i cant trust him anymore.
FAST FOWARD:
Its about a week later; & i figure if i really love this guy I can stick it out when times get hard - because i didnt want to loose him. Because before that situation he was my semi-boyfriend & like my bestfriend - we could talk about any & everything. & we go to the movies & were just hugged up watching it when he gets a text and he doesnt let me see it (in a playful way though like nope cant see it!); so im really suspicious so i get madd & walk out & he was like im just jocking it was my mom & im like whatever. & he was like but i deleted it & im just madd by then & thats when it hit me - i cant trust him ANYMORE! so a few days later i tell him i cant do it anymore. & we get into a HUGEEEEEEEEEE arguement and hes like why i love yuh & all this crap & i tell him because i cant trust him. & then we get on the subject of that chick Lisa & he was like he cutt her off because she almost made him loose the best thing in his life ; & i wass like yea yea. so now i dont believe him because i cant TRUST him.
Since he never told me what she said to him to make his feelings drift i asked him & after getting mad at him for 15 minutes he finally told me that she was telling him that she would never play him like i did; & that she would treat him like the king he is and all this BS about how she wanted him & what she would do to him & how she wish she got him before i did. So he never told me this. & i just told him if his feelings were going away for me and he cared about me SOOOOO damn much like he says why would he continue to talk to her if he knew it would hurt meh; although he said he never fed into what she was telling him - but i doubt it.
So pretty much i told him to go fuck his-self and to get lisa to be his boo & i told him to give me all my stuff & to never talk to me again.
But theres a problem;
i feel so betrayed by him but like i told yuh before he was like my boyfriend and my bestfriend so i feel like i have no one left and all i can do now a days is cry and mope and just WANT him all day long. & i hate him.
i know this is super long - but can anyone give me advice on what to do.
Should i tell him this or should i keep ignoring him; or should i just try to find someone new ; & thats the hardest thing ever - because i feel like i cant walk away from the only thing i kno.
I WROTE ALOT. :)
Well, of course by the title yu can probably tell its guy problems. :confused:. Wee yea - yur right. its so much stuff going on right now my head is spinning;
and i need advice very badly.
So heres the 411:
Me & this guy were dating from april up until august; and i dumped him because it was a new school year and i wanted to start off fresh. But of course my feelings were still there because i truly L O V E D this guy. So we agree to be friends but by early september we decide to be friends with benefits - which is always a tough situation. So we would go on dates; talk on the phone 24/7; & call each other baby - just like a couple. This lasted up until December which is where all of this stuff began.
Its just these 4 days out of 1 week where i was super busy :
not only was it THAT time of the month, i had school & after school biology extra credit classes, & winterguard tryouts, and i had 3 projects due that weekend, and a chorus rehearsal & a performance. :eek: yeahhh. so everytime he would call me i would always be busy. BUT i had told him what i was gonnah doing that week & how i was gonnah be busy. But i guess he didnt listen; because next thing i know he doesnt tell me anything until we get into a semi-fued over the phone. & he busts out with all of this well yuh werent there for me blah blah blah BS. & i was just telling him how busy i was. & i forgot how it came up but he said something about this girl named lisa and im like whos lisa ; & he was telling me she was a girl from our school and i asked why he hadnt told me about her before and he was like "I did but yuh dont listen" which was a LIE! so pretty much i ask him if his feelings were drifting for me and he said yea. I said if they were at a 10 what are they now? & he was like a 6. & of course im like WHAT why? & he was like because yuh werent there and because she was. :mad: grrr. so by now im fussing him out about how he let some chick get between us & hes like but i only love yuh...all that BS. & im telling him how i cant trust him anymore.
FAST FOWARD:
Its about a week later; & i figure if i really love this guy I can stick it out when times get hard - because i didnt want to loose him. Because before that situation he was my semi-boyfriend & like my bestfriend - we could talk about any & everything. & we go to the movies & were just hugged up watching it when he gets a text and he doesnt let me see it (in a playful way though like nope cant see it!); so im really suspicious so i get madd & walk out & he was like im just jocking it was my mom & im like whatever. & he was like but i deleted it & im just madd by then & thats when it hit me - i cant trust him ANYMORE! so a few days later i tell him i cant do it anymore. & we get into a HUGEEEEEEEEEE arguement and hes like why i love yuh & all this crap & i tell him because i cant trust him. & then we get on the subject of that chick Lisa & he was like he cutt her off because she almost made him loose the best thing in his life ; & i wass like yea yea. so now i dont believe him because i cant TRUST him.
Since he never told me what she said to him to make his feelings drift i asked him & after getting mad at him for 15 minutes he finally told me that she was telling him that she would never play him like i did; & that she would treat him like the king he is and all this BS about how she wanted him & what she would do to him & how she wish she got him before i did. So he never told me this. & i just told him if his feelings were going away for me and he cared about me SOOOOO damn much like he says why would he continue to talk to her if he knew it would hurt meh; although he said he never fed into what she was telling him - but i doubt it.
So pretty much i told him to go fuck his-self and to get lisa to be his boo & i told him to give me all my stuff & to never talk to me again.
But theres a problem;
i feel so betrayed by him but like i told yuh before he was like my boyfriend and my bestfriend so i feel like i have no one left and all i can do now a days is cry and mope and just WANT him all day long. & i hate him.
i know this is super long - but can anyone give me advice on what to do.
Should i tell him this or should i keep ignoring him; or should i just try to find someone new ; & thats the hardest thing ever - because i feel like i cant walk away from the only thing i kno.
PLEASE HELP ME!