The other week I was throwing up almost every morning and I went to see my doctor. I just got results back and I'm pregnant. I'm 16 and I'm now worried about what my parents will say because they say I'm too young to have children. So what do I do? And I really don't want abortion.
I'm scared....
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Um why are you thinking about boys when you're pregnant. Just forget about crushes and romance and focus on this child. In my honest opinion i dont think you should have an abortion because i dont agree with them. However it is your decision if you want to keep it then keep it. It is your body at the end of the day. If you think an abortion is better then just make sure that you are 100% sure you want one because it is a very tough decision to make.
I may be a little crazy but there is method in my madness 
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Well you must have slept with a boy otherwise you wouldn't be pregnant now would you?
And so what if you don't know who the father is. If you are really pregnant you need to forget about boys and all the mediocre things in life and concentrate on the new life that has been created. Having a child means self sacrifice. I may be a little crazy but there is method in my madness -
Hmmm... I may be a little crazy but there is method in my madness -
well, its your choice whether to have an abortion, but somehow you've gotta tell your mum and dad.
good luck with your decision.
Kw. x
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That's obviously not true.
flyingcupcake wrote:
Because I've never slept with a boy and I don't know who the father is.
You need to sit down and have a conversation with your parents about this, as well as the father if you figure out who that is. Talk with all of them about it and make a list of pros and cons for all of your options. Listen to the input that they give you and try and understand what they're saying. However, don't forget that ultimately YOU have to decide what to do.[CENTER]
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flyingcupcake wrote:
Because I've never slept with a boy and I don't know who the father is.
...Fail...
So.. erm.. I guess the stork dropped by, then?
But, in all seriousness, talking to your parents is all you can do atm.[CENTER]To the dumb question, 'Why me?' the cosmos barely bothers to return the reply, 'Why not?[/CENTER]
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It's the virgin mary
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Well actually, some girls are very fertile, and there have been cases of females getting pregnant just by swimming in the same pool as another male. That said, this is very rare...and your case simply isn't very plausible at all.
I suggest you talk to your parents immediately to sort out whatever issues you're having, since you're incapable of doing so yourself.[CENTER][SIZE=4][/SIZE][SIZE=4]
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You need to talk to your parents. They will help you to decide, but remember it is ultimately your decision.
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I am confused to why you dont think you have been with anyone, but anyway..
I imagine this would be difficult so just take a little time to feel ready to sit down and tell them, dont rush yourself as its early days yet, but its probably best to get it out sooner than later. It will be difficult i know but once its said, its said. Just be honest. Im sure you willbe supported through this, no matter how mad they will be.
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Kase wrote:
Well actually, some girls are very fertile, and there have been cases of females getting pregnant just by swimming in the same pool as another male. That said, this is very rare...and your case simply isn't very plausible at all.
I would suggest that you check your information again as well as its source as that is not possible, nor does it even sound logical. In order of a female to get pregnant by swimming in the same pool as a male so many factors would have to occur. The male and female would have to be in incredibly close proximity to each other, the female would have to be near the time of ovulation, the male would have to ejaculate very close to the female's vagina and the sperm would some how have to swim through the water, through the female's swim suit, and into her vagina, then proceed to go through the already difficult task of fertilizing the egg.
Please don't provide ridiculously false information, especially not in a thread of this severity.[CENTER]
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I would imagine that is impossible, being in a swimming pool doesnt get a mans bits into a womans.
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flyingcupcake wrote:
Because I've never slept with a boy and I don't know who the father is.
onyxeyes wrote:
That's obviously not true.
It could be true.
She doesn't have to have intercourse with a male to get pregnant. She said she hasn't slept with a boy, but she didn't say whether or not she did other things. As Kase was saying, but not to the extreme of a swimming pool, she could be very fertile. If she or he had cum on their fingers and messed around in the lower region it's possible that she could be pregnant. Which, means she wouldn't have actually slept with a guy.[CENTER][SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]
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Because I've never slept with a boy and I don't know who the father is.
that is in no way possible..if thats true get the pregnancy test done again.... -
The Wolf wrote:
It could be true.
She doesn't have to have intercourse with a male to get pregnant. She said she hasn't slept with a boy, but she didn't say whether or not she did other things. As Kase was saying, but not to the extreme of a swimming pool, she could be very fertile. If she or he had cum on their fingers and messed around in the lower region it's possible that she could be pregnant. Which, means she wouldn't have actually slept with a guy.
Yes, but any kind of touching at all down there is considered sex.[CENTER]To the dumb question, 'Why me?' the cosmos barely bothers to return the reply, 'Why not?[/CENTER]
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She said that she never "slept" with a man. I've never heard anyone, male or female, call getting touched by a hand in the lower region "sleeping" with someone, or even using the word sex for it.[CENTER][SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]
Maybe it's not my weekend, but it's gonna be my year! I'm so sick of watching while the minutes pass
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flyingcupcake wrote:
Because I've never slept with a boy and I don't know who the father is.
then how'd you get pregnant..?
dang, this might be the second coming of Christ o.o
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