so this is gonna take a little bit of explaining.
i met my boyfriend in a really really weird way. we compared dicks after school. eventually he confessed that he was gay and had a mad crush on me for months, and i had to confess to the same.
and since then our relationship has been amazing. he's everything that i could possibly want and its obvious that were going to be together for a long time, if not for the rest of our lives.
The problem is, were both closeted. His friends and mine notice that were always together and we've said that were just close friends. They don't buy it.
They joked that we should get married, so we responded by changing our facebook relationship status to married. Its been up for a while now, and nobody has really said anything. but as time goes on, were sure that more people will start asking questions.
my school isnt terribly homophobic, but certain parts of it are. unfortunately, a few of my friends are very homophobic, or rather anti-gay.
what is a good way to come out without it being excessively awkward. i know of people who change their facebook "interested in" to males, and then just tell people that ask that they are gay. i really wanna avoid some sort of big public thing though, and eventually i guess i should just get the balls to tell my closest friends.
what do you suggest though? i think that it would make everything so much easier if we could just be sorta public. let me know you thoughts though.
thanks!
i met my boyfriend in a really really weird way. we compared dicks after school. eventually he confessed that he was gay and had a mad crush on me for months, and i had to confess to the same.
and since then our relationship has been amazing. he's everything that i could possibly want and its obvious that were going to be together for a long time, if not for the rest of our lives.
The problem is, were both closeted. His friends and mine notice that were always together and we've said that were just close friends. They don't buy it.
They joked that we should get married, so we responded by changing our facebook relationship status to married. Its been up for a while now, and nobody has really said anything. but as time goes on, were sure that more people will start asking questions.
my school isnt terribly homophobic, but certain parts of it are. unfortunately, a few of my friends are very homophobic, or rather anti-gay.
what is a good way to come out without it being excessively awkward. i know of people who change their facebook "interested in" to males, and then just tell people that ask that they are gay. i really wanna avoid some sort of big public thing though, and eventually i guess i should just get the balls to tell my closest friends.
what do you suggest though? i think that it would make everything so much easier if we could just be sorta public. let me know you thoughts though.
thanks!