I tend to have a lot of guys trying to flirt with me. I want to flirt back and I try to but i'm just not good at it because I am really shy. I have tried to come out of being shy but I can't help it. Could me being a shy, quiet girl discourage guys from asking me out?
Girl needing guy's advice
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Yes, it could. They think you aren't showing an interest in them because you don't flirt back, or you sit there with a huge grin on your face and they think you are a ditz.
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Being nice is good but how can you suck at flirting?
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I actually like girls who are quiet because i am a little quiet too but and i dont think it will stop anyone from asking you out:D
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Suzieq9109 wrote:
Could me being a shy, quiet girl discourage guys from asking me out?
yes. talk more to guys. that'll show that you have more interest in them. -
im the worst at this. you'll get it over time.
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Suzieq9109 wrote:
I tend to have a lot of guys trying to flirt with me. I want to flirt back and I try to but i'm just not good at it because I am really shy. I have tried to come out of being shy but I can't help it. Could me being a shy, quiet girl discourage guys from asking me out?
omg im exactly the same...when im not drunk... -
you just have to push yourself
and..no, dont think of how to flirt back...just let come naturally..after all, that's one of the funs in flirting! -
if you show your boobs to them...that's better than flirting
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you just need to talk to them more, u might feel really uncomfortable at first but once u like get used to it you will be way more comfortable around guys, and in turn they will be more comfortable around u.
i used to be just like u and just used to sit there and like laugh every so often and now i flirt with everyone, so u can do it, u just need to practise. -
You shouldn't completely change who you are or anything, or do things that you are uncomfortable with, but...
If they are flirting you should relax and maybe laugh and smile a bit. You don't really have to "flirt" back, just try to be friendly with those boys. -
I know its hard, i used to be the same. But eventually i came out and just basically began flirting with guys as natural as they would with me
Im sure that oneday you will be the same, the more you get used to it, especially.
I always thought id be shy forever, but i wasnt..you will probably come out the same.
I felt more confident doing this sort of thing wen after i develped more confidence in going out.
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