Hello Teenhut
First post here and i wish i could of started under more cheery circumstances but ive been lurking around here and it seems like a good place to ask my question.
Im not sure if its the same everywhere but in my school we usually hang around in a big group together with all our mates and we're all mates with each other. About 6 or 7 people usually (my closest friends ARE the group kind of thing we've got going ive got more friends than 7 ).
Anyway two people that ive known for a couple years now are both some of my best friends we'll call them..jack and jill.
Jack liked jill for a long time, i helped both of them out to get together. Eventually after a year and a bit they got together, hapily ever after. Untill the breakup, i wont go into details why the breakup happened but jill was largely disatisfied due to a misunderstanding (not cheating or anything the guy just said something wrong and it was building up to this)
Anyway, They broke up.
Im both one of their best friends. They cant bear being near each other but they both want me to be with them. I cant be in two places at the same time no matter how much i try.
I would really rather give them equal time but jill hangs around me by default (im fine with this really). So besides the fact that i have to split myself between two people, jill showed me cuts on her arm that she had inflicted on herself. (not near any major arteries or veins or anything.. more on the upper arm..but still enough to inflict pain and suffering)
Im not really sure at all what to do in this situation, Any advice will be appreciated.
First post here and i wish i could of started under more cheery circumstances but ive been lurking around here and it seems like a good place to ask my question.
Im not sure if its the same everywhere but in my school we usually hang around in a big group together with all our mates and we're all mates with each other. About 6 or 7 people usually (my closest friends ARE the group kind of thing we've got going ive got more friends than 7 ).
Anyway two people that ive known for a couple years now are both some of my best friends we'll call them..jack and jill.
Jack liked jill for a long time, i helped both of them out to get together. Eventually after a year and a bit they got together, hapily ever after. Untill the breakup, i wont go into details why the breakup happened but jill was largely disatisfied due to a misunderstanding (not cheating or anything the guy just said something wrong and it was building up to this)
Anyway, They broke up.
Im both one of their best friends. They cant bear being near each other but they both want me to be with them. I cant be in two places at the same time no matter how much i try.
I would really rather give them equal time but jill hangs around me by default (im fine with this really). So besides the fact that i have to split myself between two people, jill showed me cuts on her arm that she had inflicted on herself. (not near any major arteries or veins or anything.. more on the upper arm..but still enough to inflict pain and suffering)
Im not really sure at all what to do in this situation, Any advice will be appreciated.