A Friend of mine

Yummie · May 1st 2009, 2:47pm

Hi everyone,
I have a friend that I had class with and she moved on to another class so where not in the same class anyone. She comes and visits everyday Im there and we talk for about a half an hour or so after class or when where on break. I just like her as friend and stuff currently. However, she does have a boyfriend. I wanted to take her out to lunch just to hang out. Is that going to far?

Any help is welcomed!

Thanks!

armyforthebroken · May 1st 2009, 3:25pm

Absolutely not. You are very much entitled to hang out with your friends, whenever and with whomever you please. However, you just have to keep in mind to not pay for her or flirt with her, all that other stuff. It's difficult to draw the line, but when you feel like you're taking things too far - stop and remind yourself that this is just a friendly hang-out.

Good luck!

Yummie · May 1st 2009, 3:33pm

ok i understand what you mean about pushing limits. I've had the thought behind my head saying that does seem like to far. thank you for the help!

armyforthebroken · May 1st 2009, 3:34pm

You're welcome

MissPez · May 1st 2009, 4:14pm

It's important that if you do hang out with her outside of school, at dinner or movies or whatever it might be, if it's just the two of you, to make sure the boyfriend knows what's going on. Even if your intentions are to hang just as friends, if he feels like it's been kept a secret from him that she's hanging out with some other guy it'll look really bad.

Annjill OMJ · May 1st 2009, 6:28pm

Of course no. I hang out with my friends a lot at school.

Yummie · May 1st 2009, 8:33pm

Thank you all for your help!

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