Things to Do On A Date?

Zach · May 4th 2009, 12:50am

Alright, so I had asked a girl out yesterday. She said yes, I got excited, daydreamed for a bit, and I want to make it work longer than other relationships I've been in. Obviously, the best way to achieve that is to keep on doing things with her.

The problem is, though I can get excited as I want, I still don't have any idea on WHAT I could do with her.

I'm fine with the movies, etc. etc. but I really don't want her thinking "Oh, great, another one of these ones." Meaning, I guess you could say I want to be 'original'; not follow what you hear about every day.

If you don't care to read my profile, I am 14 years old.

Any ideas? My mind is blank.

QueenMallardi · May 4th 2009, 12:53am

Well thats good : ) maybe you should talk to her and see what she likes? Almost any cute thing a guy does makes a girl happy... just dont do the same stuff over and over again : ):p

Aunt Jemima · May 4th 2009, 12:54am

Go to the movies.

Zach · May 4th 2009, 12:59am

CashMoney wrote:

Go to the movies.

I had my CashMoney Defenses up before I even created this thread. 'Tis okay.

Jasmine · May 4th 2009, 12:59am

You can ask her what she likes to do. Depending on where you live, there might be some local things going on too. You could always try bowling, miniature golf, ice skating, the mall, go to a park, the beach. It depends on where you live and what you and her like to do.

Aunt Jemima · May 4th 2009, 1:00am

Zach wrote:

I had my CashMoney Defenses up before I even created this thread. 'Tis okay.

ImNotATree · May 4th 2009, 1:02am

Zach wrote:

I had my CashMoney Defenses up before I even created this thread. 'Tis okay.

LOL

But the movies sounds like a plan.

Scenario:
You - "Lets go to the movies !"

- During movie -

You - *Looks over at girl. Fake yawns and stretches arm
across girl's shoulder*

Hehe

Oldest trick in the book

Zach · May 4th 2009, 1:08am

As I said, I'm fine with the movies -- I said my disliking for them is about originality, but whatever would be fun for her I'm fine with. I may just be overly paranoid about it, thinking girls think somewhat in the same way, but meh. If they aren't, I'd definitely take some responses confirming it ("overly paranoid").

Thanks for the responses thus far.

Bebop · May 4th 2009, 6:30am

Mini-golf. Bumber boats (if it's warm. Get her wet. :wink:). Ice/roller skating.

captain_kurenai · May 4th 2009, 8:03am

Here's an original date. Take her to McDonald's and talk over lunch lol. Maybe not so original since that's what me and my boyfriend did on our first date. For some that may seem boring but I greatly enjoyed just being able to talk to him and getting to know him more

I don't think you should worry too much about originality or something though. I mean, she agreed to a date, right? She's not expecting something mind blowing just a good time with you ... and if that means going to the movies and cuddling, then so be it. Nothing wrong with keeping things simple.

Titus Pullo · May 4th 2009, 8:24am

captain_kurenai wrote:

Here's an original date. Take her to McDonald's and talk over lunch lol. Maybe not so original since that's what me and my boyfriend did on our first date. For some that may seem boring but I greatly enjoyed just being able to talk to him and getting to know him more

That's what I did on my first date with the girlfriend I was with for the longest time.

It's great to just talk. We went on dates everyday and about 60% were lunch. Talking is good if you find the right person.

But other things we did (might give you ideas):

Went dancing
Went for a drink and meal at a pub
Went to the arcades
Went shopping

If you're not the type of person to do something crazy and new.. like in the film Yes Man, then it probably won't be very enjoyable.

easianheritage · May 4th 2009, 11:01pm

bring a condom with you

teenheartbeatingfaster · May 4th 2009, 11:14pm

ImNotATree wrote:

LOL

But the movies sounds like a plan.

Scenario:
You - "Lets go to the movies !"

- During movie -

You - *Looks over at girl. Fake yawns and stretches arm
across girl's shoulder*

Hehe Oldest trick in the book

it's also really lame

Liam · May 4th 2009, 11:16pm

Have sex, and don't forget to..

easianheritage wrote:

bring a condom with you

username #145 · May 4th 2009, 11:19pm

Seriously, do mini golf. Even if the date sucks, mini golf fooken ROCKS

warrior3jb · May 4th 2009, 11:25pm

aleaiactaest wrote:

Seriously, do mini golf. Even if the date sucks, mini golf fooken ROCKS

what he said:ninja:

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