How to not let a guy friend mistaken that you like him?

    • How to not let a guy friend mistaken that you like him?

      If you have seen my post before, yea, I'm dealing with the same guy.

      So, I finally talked to this guy I wanted to make friends with. Even though it didn't work out as I planned and I probably acted like a weirdo, at least I talked to him.

      One problem was that... I acted too nervous! But that's just who I am... I'm not comfortable when talking to unfamiliar people. And plus, its already awkward the fact that we used to just stare in the hallway and walk away. I was afraid that he feels unfriendly... In which, I was thinking too much.

      What I don't want now is that he sees being nervous as I sign that I like him. Which is totally not what I meant. I just want to be his friend because we have the same religion and that makes me comfortable.

      I want to make approaches to become a close friend of him, but how can I do it without giving the wrong idea?
    • Re: How to not let a guy friend mistaken that you like him?

      I haven't read your previous post but I can tell you that guys don't like to be misled, it will ruin everything. Just don't be too nervous around him or that will give him the idea that you like him and want to be more than just friends.

      Tell him upfront that you would just like to be friends. Guys can take it.
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    • Re: How to not let a guy friend mistaken that you like him?

      Hi Ikari!

      Recently, I had an argument with a friend
      saying that guys and girls can't be friends.
      >< Lame.

      Anyways.

      Well, nervousness is a sign of 'liking'. The
      only way, at the moment, that I can think
      of to not let your guy friend think you like
      him is by telling him straight up. Explain
      to him that nervousness is just you and to
      not take anything the wrong way.

      But, maybe you're over reacting? Maybe he
      doesn't like you. But who knows, right?

      Just talk to him and tell him about it, it'll
      be okay. Like what EvilAznBoi said, guys
      can take it.

      Good Luck <3
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