Im a sophmore. I wanna have sex but my boyfriend wants to cherrish my virginity till we are sure we are ready. How can I make him see I'm ready. I need someone to step up
Someone needs to step up
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I'm assuming a HS Sophomore. The first question you need to answer is: Do you love him, and does he love you? If the answer to either of those is no, then you shouldn't be having sex. I'm not sure on how to help you, since I don't know all the details, but do you want to have sex because it's "cool", or because you love your boyfriend? Or is it because you want to get off?
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When you're next making out, show that you wanna take it further, like act hornier than normal, maybe unbutton his clothes etc. And tell him you love him (if you do) and how much he means to you, and that you couldnt imagine losing your virginity to anyone more nicer[LEFT][SIZE=3][SIGPIC][/SIGPIC][/SIZE][/LEFT]
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He probably doesn't want to fuck you.
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Maybe you should take it as a sign that he isn't ready. By trying too hard to make him see you're 'ready' will just push him away. Just take it slow. You can always have sex later. Take time getting to know him better, and do other sexual stuff.
How long have you been dating?
And, since it's the end of the school year, are you leaving grade nine and going into grade ten, or are you leaving grade ten and going into grade eleven? -
we have been dating for 8 months, going to the tenth, I know everything about him, he said he is ready, he just want to make sure I am
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yes he loves me, I love him. I want to because I love him very much -
Jurnee wrote:
we have been dating for 8 months, going to the tenth, I know everything about him, he said he is ready, he just want to make sure I am
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yes he loves me, I love him. I want to because I love him very much
Ok. Going to be a sophomore in ten weeks is very different then leaving your sophomore year.
I would hold off until at least second semester grade 10. Grade 9 is far too young. I had sex in grade 10, but I was leaving grade ten, and I was very mature for my age and had researched everything from birth control to pregnancy. I was fully prepared.
Sex is more than just sticking someone's penis in your vagina. You need to know the facts, schedule an appointment with your doctor, go on the pill or other method of contraceptive. That's in ADDITION to condoms, which you also must use.
Once you have sex, you can't go back to just kissing. Are you sure you're ready to take that step? Sex makes the relationship 10x harder, you have to work, and things get tough. You have to be prepared for that. -
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Ok. Going to be a sophomore in ten weeks is very different then leaving your sophomore year.
I would hold off until at least second semester grade 10. Grade 9 is far too young. I had sex in grade 10, but I was leaving grade ten, and I was very mature for my age and had researched everything from birth control to pregnancy. I was fully prepared.
Sex is more than just sticking someone's penis in your vagina. You need to know the facts, schedule an appointment with your doctor, go on the pill or other method of contraceptive. That's in ADDITION to condoms, which you also must use.
Once you have sex, you can't go back to just kissing. Are you sure you're ready to take that step? Sex makes the relationship 10x harder, you have to work, and things get tough. You have to be prepared for that.
I have done all the research I need about the pros and cons on sex, your right I think I like my relationship the way it is right now, thanks -
Jurnee wrote:
I have done all the research I need about the pros and cons on sex, your right I think I like my relationship the way it is right now, thanks
You just posted two other threads about how your relationship is falling apart. How you think your boyfriend is cheating on you, and how you are fighting all the time. -
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well, if you need to wonder if your ready, you are not[CENTER][SIZE=1]She's the wild orchid in your ugly swamp[/SIZE][/CENTER]
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You're too young for sex, personally.
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get naked and hold him down."so, if you want to solve a real mystery, go ahead and figure out who's taking my NY Times every Sunday, or, better yet, how about why anybody on the planet actually thinks Dane Cook is funny" ~~~~ Dr.Cox
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I suppose that's one way to do it. It'd definitely get the guy going.
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Seeing as you already have a thread about how you think your boyfriend is cheating... do you really think your ready - you don't seem like you are?[CENTER][SIGPIC][/SIGPIC][/CENTER]
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seduce him, worked on me
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So is he cheating?
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Just seduce him while your making out or something. Buy a condom for him...idk what else...lol
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