sorta need help

tripp · Jul 17th 2009, 10:47am

hey well here is the story lol
there is this guy he has been a mate for like ages but recently i have been crushing on him, im going to sydney with him next week and as far as i know he is straight and he has suspicions about me being bi should i just keep it secret or should i just say im i am bi? i wouldnt mind if we didnt do anything but i dont want to ruin my friendship any advice??

Assaultrifle · Jul 17th 2009, 10:50am

Well don't tell him you're bi right before you go on a trip with him. He might freak out and then not want to go. In fact, I don't really see any advantage to telling him you're bi.

Bosh Bash Bish · Jul 17th 2009, 10:53am

Are you going with him alone, or with a big group of people.
To be honest, if he finds out but not from you, he might get a bit annoyed and upset that you didn't tell him in the first place..
If he's a mate he should understand, if he doesn't and he avoids you, he's really not a good mate.

tripp · Jul 17th 2009, 10:55am

yeah its just us to but were not the closest anymore he moved away and we occasionally text and i really wish i could tell him but i dont know if i should i need to tell someone but grrr i dunno lol this is hard

Bosh Bash Bish · Jul 17th 2009, 10:57am

I know what you mean. Your just weird. Its going to be hard telling the first person your bi sexual.
I would wait till after the holiday I think. Just cuz you dont want to spoil the holiday that you've already paid for and that.

tripp · Jul 17th 2009, 10:59am

yeah i guess thankx

Bosh Bash Bish · Jul 17th 2009, 11:00am

By the way, I did a mistake. I didnt mean to say your just weird aha!
I was meant to say your just worried lol!
SORRY!!

tripp · Jul 17th 2009, 11:01am

hahahaha na its k i sorta got it

idk2008 · Jul 17th 2009, 12:21pm

If you guys are walking around, and you see some REALLY hot guys, ask him if he thinks they are hot too! There is your chance!

tripp · Jul 17th 2009, 12:29pm

but he is the type to if he thinks somthing he will keep his walls up to maintain his appearence ya kno?

Saradactyl · Jul 17th 2009, 3:32pm

If y'all are friends you should tell him. I know how difficult it could be to come out to someone, especially if it is your first time. You will feel so much better afterwards though, because it is finally out there and you don't have to keep it quiet anymore.

killy750 · Jul 17th 2009, 3:59pm

be open to him, nothing good comes from hiding stuff, besides he may like you too

idk2008 · Jul 18th 2009, 3:24am

tripp wrote:

but he is the type to if he thinks somthing he will keep his walls up to maintain his appearence ya kno?

It might be different if you guys are alone in the city. He might be more relaxed about life.

tHe CoBb · Jul 22nd 2009, 5:20am

I think you should tell him and see how he reacts before you tell him you have a crush on him, because if he flips out about the bi thing don't tell him you have a crush on him, and I think that the trip is a good time to tell him, you two will be alone and he wont have to keep his persona, you know.

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